Sunday, October 18, 2015

Hat And Jacket For Davening - A Charedi Fiction?



The Shulchan Aruch [91/6] writes that it is the way of the wise and their students to daven while they are “atufim” which means wrapped up. This is understood by the poskim to mean [in our day and age] while wearing a hat and jacket. Later, the Shulchan Aruch [98/4] expands this to include all people ראוי שיהיו לו מלבושים מיוחדים לתפילה כמו בגדי כהונה – it is fitting that he should have special garments for tefillah like kohanic garb. When one meets a very important personage he dresses in a special way, so why should one wear a nice suit and tie for Obama but for the Master of the Universe [who is also, kviyachol, pro-israel] he wears khaki pants and a three button shirt? [עי' גם ברמב"ם הלכות תפלה ה ה].

It eludes me why it is considered so acceptable to dress so casually for tefillah. The gemara [in the first perek of shabbos 10 and see also the beginning of the fifth perek of brachos] is very clear about the issue of הכון לקראת אלקיך ישראל [Amos 4/12] – Prepare yourself [with fine clothing] to meet the G-d of Israel. People say that a hat and jacket are purely social norms that have no basis in halacha. This is false and misleading. For those who walk around in a hat and jacket it is an obligation to dress that way for davening. For those who don't – SOMETHING should be worn as an expression of our respect for the great personage we are about to beseech.

Rav Chaim Kniyevsky and Rav Nissim Karelitz are quoted as saying that if one can either daven with a minyan but without hat and jacket or with a minyan but without a hat and jacket – he should miss the minyan! Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach argues. [עי' מאיר עוז עמוד 278].

Rav Belsky [קובץ מתיבתא תשנ"ג עמ רפ"ו] is quoted as saying that it is a mistake to think that in the olden days people would wear a hat in front of important people but today we don't so it is not necessary for tefilla. The reality is that people would REMOVE their hats when standing in front of important people and yet the halacha required a hat and that hasn't changed. The Klausenberger ztz”l also says in a tshuva [עי' דברי יציב סי' ס – הוא קורא למנהג ללכת ברחוב בלי כובע - מנהג שוטים] that בטלה דעתו if he feels that a hat isn't necessary because it is an act of kavod to wear one and is thus obligatory.

In Yeshivas Rabbeinu Yitzchak Elchanan, Rav Soloveitchik would give shiur while wearing just a yarmulke but after shiur he would wash his hands [with a כלי] and then put on his hat and daven [מפניני הרב עמ' ע”ד].

Modern Orthodox, Yeshivish, Chasidish – it doesn't matter. Special clothing for the King is fitting for anyone who either has a Jewish mother or who converted to Judaism….

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