Here is the secret!!!
There is nobody like you in the world. NOBODY!! There has never been anyone like you and never will be in the future. Your life circumstances are totally unique. So you have a job to do that nobody else can do. Not any Gadol Ba-Torah or any Kotton Ba-Torah or anyone in between. Hashem created you sui generis. You are one of a kind. There is Kavod Shomayim that can/must come from you alone.
So you have NO TIME for anything that has nothing to do with your personal job. The Machlokes in Ger is in that category. There are LOADS of things in life that DISTRACT us from our real jobs in this world and we must be vigilant to make sure that we don't succumb. One of these things is fights that have nothing to do with you. Not only is it a waste of very valuable time but also can and does lead to Lashon Hara, Motzi Sheim Ra, Sinas Yisroel and other מרעין בישין.
So the secret is - "Don't read or talk about it!!! It has nothing to do with you. If you are needed as an intermediary to make peace between the two sides then you will be contacted. You have extra time? GREAT!!! The Torah is HUUUUUGEEEEE!!!! LEARNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN. Do chesed. Call your bubby. Say tehillim. There are LOADS of things to do with extra time."
