This post reminded me of the NBA who was asked what he was going to do during the off-season and he replied that he was going to work on his nivul peh. He curses too much and his "momma" doesn't like it.
I don't remember the player's name [only his team and skin color:-)] but I remember the boy who told me the story in the car on the way from Brooklyn to Manhattan.
Thanks for the ride D.S.B.C.R. and may you find your zivug SOOONNN!!!:-). She will be the luckiest.