Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Phrases To Use At Work



1. I don't know what your problem is, but I'll bet it's hard to pronounce.

2. How about never? Is never good for you?

3. You sound reasonable... Time to up the medication.

4. Who me? I just wander from room to room.

5. Can I trade this job for what's behind door number 1?

6. I'm out of my mind, but feel free to leave a message...

7. I don't work here. I'm a consultant.

8. It sounds like English, but I can't understand a word you're saying.

9.. You are validating my inherent mistrust of strangers.

10. I have plenty of talent and vision. I just don't care.

11. I will always cherish the initial misconceptions I had about you.

12. Thank you. We're all refreshed and challenged by your unique point of view.

13. The fact that no one understands you doesn't mean you're an artist.

14. Any connection between your reality and mine is purely coincidental.

Computers - Prayer - Waves - Sunshine - Taxes - Parachutes



A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing.

As long as there are tests, there will be prayer in schools.

What did one ocean say to the other ocean? Nothing, they just waved.

A day without sunshine is like, night.

Born free, taxed to death.

For Sale: Parachute. Only used once, never opened.

How To Be Totally Awesome



1. At Lunch Time, Sit In Your Parked Car With Sunglasses on and Point A Hair Dryer At Passing Cars. See If They Slow Down.

2. When The Money Comes Out The ATM, Scream "I Won! I Won!"

3. Every Time Someone Asks You To Do Something, Ask If They Want Fries with that.

4. When Leaving The Zoo, Start Running Towards The Parking Lot, Yelling "Run For Your Lives, They're Loose!!"

Intermarriage Worse Than Cartoon

They had a demonstration against the Times for the Anti Semitic cartoon in midtown Manhattan today. One of the speakers was a man who was raised in a good frum home who threw it all away and raised his children secular. His sons married Catholic girls רח"ל. That is worse for the Jewish people than a stupid cartoon in a newspaper that is well known for its anti Israel bias.  

New York Times Cartoon

People MISUNDERSTOOD!!! 

Everyone knows that a dog is man's best friend. Caricaturing Netanyahu as a dog is their way of saying that he is their best friend [but why the purple lipstick?]. Especially in New York City which is the dog capital of the world. Whenever I go there and walk around the West Side I see dogs, dogs, dogs. 

And Trump being depicted as blind? Hey - who doesn't have compassion and mercy for blind people. They were saying that they have compassion for him!! The yarmulke on his head - it just shows that he has Yiras Shomayim. 

On that note: One famous actress [she has a Jewish name but that is only because she married a man with a Jewish name - she is not Jewish] blamed TRUMP for the shooting in the San Diego Chabad shul. 

I ask Trump's enemies - what ISN'T Trump's fault? Global warming? They blame the guy for EVERYTHING. 

The world is FILLLLLEEED with darkness! The ONLY way to combat this is to fill the world with light!! 

Kedoshim Ti-hiyu - Part 2

We would like to understand the nature of Kedusha. 

Chazal [Niddah 30a] said that a fetus takes an oath:

"הוי יודע שהקב"ה טהור ומשרתיו טהורים ונשמה שבך טהורה היא אם אתה משמרה בטהרה מוטב".

"Know that Hashem is pure, his servants are pure and the neshama within you is pure, if you guard it with purity - good."

A mention is made of purity - טהרה -  but not of holiness - קדושה, as the pasuk says "קדושים תהיו כי קדוש אני ה' א-להיכם". The fundamental distinction between קדושה and טהרה is that טהרה implies that there is also טומאה while קדושה is the complete release from טומאה, not only distancing oneself from טומאה but completely removing it from the world. As long as the נשמה is outside the body it can perceive Hashem on the level of טהרה with the potential for טומאה still present. After the נשמה enters  the body and elevates it to the level of נשמה then it is possible to perceive the level of קדושה of קדושים תהיו כי קדוש אני. And in the future when the pasuk "ואת רוח הטומאה אעביר מן הארץ" - "The spirit of impurity I will remove from the land" is fulfilled and "ונשגב ה' לבדו ביום ההוא" - "Hashem will stand alone on that day" - then קדושה will be revealed in its complete glory. 

There is a difference between מצוות that were given at מרה and מצוות that were given at סיני. At מרה it says "שם שם לו חק ומשפט ושם נסהו", while at סיני it says "ונתת אל הארון את העדות אשר אתן אליך". The difference is that חק and משפט [laws and statutes] are for the sake of existence while  עדות [testimonies] precedes existence, because עדות must be unbiased and a biased witness is פסול לעדות. Since all of our lives flow from the reality of existence we are all biased and so how can be be witnesses to Hashem "אתם עדי ואני א-ל". Just at מתן תורה the Jews merited that their lives would not be based on the order of normative existence but rather they can live from the power of Torah. Therefore, when Moshe ascended to the heavens he did not eat bread nor drink water and he was there for 40 days and forty nights [and according to Chazal - 3 times 40 days and nights] - a different otherworldly existence. And Moshe was a member of Klal Yisrael and the rule is that:

"דבר שהיה בכלל ויצא מן הכלל לא ללמד על עצמו יצא אלא ללמד על הכלל כולו יצא" 

Something that was included in the כלל and then went out of the כלל does not teach about itself but about the entire כלל. So essentially Moshe was teaching us that ALL of כלל ישראל could live such a otherworldly, angelic existence. Because of the level they were on, they were no longer considered biased and were kosher witnesses to testify about Hashem.    

The Medrash says: 

ואתה מרום רוממות אתה נוהג בעולמך - נתת כהונה לאהרן לעולם "ברית מלח היא" נתת מלכות לדוד לעולם שנאמר (ד"ה ב יג) "הלא לכם לדעת כי אלהי ישראל נתן ממלכה לדוד על ישראל לעולם". נתת קדושה לישראל לעולם שנאמר "קדושים תהיו":

This means that even though כהונה and מלכות are very sublime and exalted. כהונה extends from Aharon and his sons to the entire Jewish people making it possible for us all to be a "ממלכת כהנים וגוי קדוש". And מלכות בית דוד inspires all of כלל ישראל to accept upon themselves the yoke of heaven. Nevertheless, it was enough for כהונה to be given to Aharon and sons and מלכות to דוד, but קדושה could only be given to כלל ישראל as a whole. Not only כלל ישראל in every generation but כלל ישראל from the beginning of time until the end. That is what the medrash meant when it said that according to Rebbe Akiva ואהבת לרעך כמוך - זה כלל גדול בתורה and בן עזאי said that the pasuk "זה ספר תולדות האדם" is an even bigger rule. In other words - it is not enough to include oneself in the generation in which he lives but he must rather include himself in all of the previous and future generations as well. All together they constitute a complete "book" and that is a כלל even greater than the כלל of ואהבת לרעך כמוך. 


כלל ישראל in all of the generations can receive the קדושה of the future "ונשגב ה' לבדו ביום ההוא" and "והיה ה' למלך על כל הארץ ביום ההוא יהיה ה' אחד ושמו אחד" - in other words, Hashem and His holy nation who are שמו "his name" will be One and then then the spirit of impurity will be removed from the land and Hashem will be One with complete unity like no other.

Kedoshim Ti-hiyu - Part 1

         לרפואת ר' מרדכי בן שרה בתוך שח"י            

                           "קְדֹשִׁים תִּהְיוּ כִּי קָדוֹשׁ אֲנִי יְ-ה-וָ-ה אֱ-לֹהֵיכֶם"

It says in the Zohar Hakadosh [ח"ג פ"א] that the words קדושים תהיו are a promise that in the end we will be holy. This fits with what Chazal tell us that in the future the nations will say "what is the difference between the Jews and the Gentiles?" And Hashem will answer them "If so, each one should go with his god to gehenom". Meaning that even though there is no rhyme or reason for the distinction between between Jews and Gentiles, nevertheless Hashem loves His nation and he clings to them and does not desire that they should languish in gehenom. Because of this, the gemara [Rosh Hashana 17a] says that even the sinners of Israel will outlast gehenom due to their deep connection to their Divine source. Therefore we have a promise that in the end - we will all be holy. קדושים תהיו כי קדוש אני השם א-להיכם. 

This knowledge comes to teach us that however the Jews will draw spiritual bounty and from wherever they will draw it, their future flows from the Divine holiness that will be revealed in them  and from there they will draw spiritual sustenance even in the present in order that their present will be filled with the holiness of the future. 

That is the notion of צפיית הישועה - anticipating the salvation, to draw the future salvation into their present lives, as the pasuk say: "ושאבתם מים בששון ממעייני הישועה" - You will draw water with joy [now] from the wellsprings of salvation [in the future].

This parsha was stated בהקהל - when all of the Jews were gathered together [Rashi]. The Medrash says that all 10 commandments were written in this parsha. But we have to understand: In the עשרת הדברות first it says that we may not have other gods - "לא יהיה לך", then comes Shabbos and then Kibbud Av Vi-aim. While here it first says to fear your parents, then Shabbos and then not to have other gods. Why the change in order??

[עפ"י דברי הגרי"מ חרל"פ זצ"ל]   

Orlah - Part 7

I could go on but I am not so sure that anybody is still following along. People prefer short and easily digestible Torah. 

The reality is that Torah is incredibly deep and gets deeper and deeper as you go along. May we be zocheh to taste it... 

Mesirus Nefesh

The sefarim talk in many places about the mesirus nefesh displayed by Yitzchak at the Akeidah. Rav Chaim of Volozhin famously teaches that the mesirus nefesh of the Jews in all the generations was rooted in the mesirus nefesh of the Akeidah. We see that this one act of Yitzchak encapsulated ALL of the difficulties and tests the Jews were able to withstand throughout all the generations. 

נורא!!!

When Yitzchak gave his brachos to Yaakov the pasuk says that he smelled ריח בגדיו - the smell of his clothing. Chazal expound that he smelled ריח בוגדיו - the [delicious] smell of his REBELS.

The midrash goes on to tell the story of such rebels:

דָּבָר אַחֵר, וַיָּרַח אֶת רֵיחַ בְּגָדָיו וַיְבָרֲכֵהוּ, כְּגוֹן יוֹסֵף מְשִׁיתָא וְיָקוּם אִישׁ צְרוֹרוֹת. יוֹסֵף מְשִׁיתָא, בְּשָׁעָה שֶׁבִּקְּשׁוּ שׂוֹנְאִים לְהִכָּנֵס לְהַר הַבַּיִת אָמְרוּ יִכָּנֵס מֵהֶם וּבָהֶם תְּחִלָּה, אֲמָרִין לֵיהּ עוּל וּמַה דְּאַתְּ מַפִּיק דִּידָךְ, נִכְנַס וְהוֹצִיא מְנוֹרָה שֶׁל זָהָב, אָמְרוּ לוֹ אֵין דַּרְכּוֹ שֶׁל הֶדְיוֹט לְהִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בָּזוֹ, אֶלָּא עוּל זְמַן תִּנְיָנוּת וּמַה דְּאַתְּ מַפִּיק דִּידָךְ, וְלֹא קִבֵּל עָלָיו. אָמַר רַבִּי פִּינְחָס נָתְנוּ לוֹ מֶכֶס שָׁלשׁ שָׁנִים, וְלֹא קִבֵּל עָלָיו, אָמַר לֹא דַּיִּי שֶׁהִכְעַסְתִּי לֵאלֹהַי פַּעַם אַחַת אֶלָּא שֶׁאַכְעִיסֶנּוּ פַּעַם שְׁנִיָּה. מֶה עָשׂוּ לוֹ נָתְנוּ אוֹתוֹ בַּחֲמוֹר שֶׁל חָרָשִׁים וְהָיוּ מְנַסְּרִים בּוֹ, הָיָה מְצַוֵּחַ וְאוֹמֵר וַוי אוֹי אוֹי שֶׁהִכְעַסְתִּי לְבוֹרְאִי. וְיָקוּם אִישׁ צְרוֹרוֹת הָיָה בֶּן אֲחוֹתוֹ שֶׁל רַבִּי יוֹסֵי בֶּן יוֹעֶזֶר אִישׁ צְרֵידָה, וַהֲוָה רָכֵיב סוּסְיָא בְּשַׁבְּתָא אֲזַל קוֹמֵי שָׁרִיתָא לְמִצְטַבָּלָא, אֲמַר לֵיהּ חֲמֵי סוּסִי דְּאַרְכְּבִי מָרִי וַחֲמֵי סוּסָךָ דְּאַרְכְּבֵךְ מָרָךְ. אָמַר לוֹ אִם כָּךְ לְמַכְעִיסָיו קַל וָחֹמֶר לְעוֹשֵׂי רְצוֹנוֹ, אָמַר לוֹ עָשָׂה אָדָם רְצוֹנוֹ יוֹתֵר מִמְּךָ, אָמַר לוֹ וְאִם כָּךְ לְעוֹשֵׂי רְצוֹנוֹ קַל וָחֹמֶר לְמַכְעִיסָיו. נִכְנַס בּוֹ הַדָּבָר כְּאֶרֶס שֶׁל עַכְנָא, הָלַךְ וְקִיֵּם בְּעַצְמוֹ אַרְבַּע מִיתוֹת בֵּית דִּין, סְקִילָה, שְׂרֵפָה, הֶרֶג וְחֶנֶק, מֶה עָשָׂה, הֵבִיא קוֹרָה נְעָצָהּ בָּאָרֶץ וְקָשַׁר בָּהּ נִימָא וְעָרַךְ הָעֵצִים וְהִקִּיפָן גָּדֵר שֶׁל אֲבָנִים, וְעָשָׂה מְדוּרָה לְפָנֶיהָ וְנָעַץ אֶת הַחֶרֶב בָּאֶמְצַע וְהִצִּית הָאוּר תַּחַת הָעֵצִים מִתַּחַת הָאֲבָנִים, וְנִתְלָה בַּקּוֹרָה וְנֶחְנַק, קִדְּמַתּוֹ הָאֵשׁ, נִפְסְקָה הַנִּימָה, נָפַל לָאֵשׁ, קִדְּמַתּוֹ חֶרֶב וְנָפַל עָלָיו גָּדֵר וְנִשְׂרַף. נִתְנַמְנֵם יוֹסֵי בֶּן יוֹעֶזֶר אִישׁ צְרֵידָה וְרָאָה מִטָּתוֹ פָּרְחָה בָּאֲוִיר, אָמַר בְּשָׁעָה קַלָּה קְדָמַנִּי זֶה לְגַן עֵדֶן.


 The Midrash says (Bereishis Rabbah 65:22) that after the Greeks took the Temple Mount, they wanted to enter the Holy Temple and take possession of its precious vessels – but they feared Heavenly retribution. They found a non-affiliated Jew named Yosef Meshita, and bribed him to go in ahead of them, saying he could take whatever he wanted. Yosef Meshita agreed, entered the Sanctuary, and removed the golden Menorah.

The Greeks were taken aback by its beauty. “This Menorah must be given to the King,” they said. “Go back in and take something else.”

“I shall not,” the suddenly serious sinner said. “Is it not enough that I have angered my Creator once – shall I go in a second time as well?!” They tried to reason with him, but he would not re-enter. They threatened him, but he would not budge. It soon became clear that he would either acquiesce, or die: The Greeks built a large wooden table, and began nailing Yosef to it. Instead of backing down, he refused to hand over the Menorah to the heathens, crying out, “Woe is to me, that I have angered my Creator,” as his soul departed him.  

Yakum Ish Tzrorot was an assimilationist during the Roman occupation of Israel. His brother-in-law, R' Yossi ben Yoezer, was sentenced to death by the Roman authorities for teaching Torah, a kiddush Hashem. As R'Yossi was led to be executed, Yakum rode up and shouted at him: "Do you see now what happens to you for performing mitzvot?" R' Yossi responded back: "In that case, you can imagine what is going to happen to you for not performing mitzvot!" These words had an unbelievable effect on Yakum -- "like a serpent's poison" -- and he immediately did teshuva. [See the original for what happened next]. 

Based on what we said earlier we can understand that when Yitzchak saw the mesirus nefesh of Yaakov's rebellious descendents he knew that he was worthy of the brachos that he was giving in order to continue the chain and that Eisav was out.

[ואני תפילה עמ' כ"ט] 

Orlah - Part 6

We can answer these questions based on a diyuk in the language of the Rambam who wrote: 

"כל שהוא חייב בערלה יש לו רבעי". 

Note - The Rambam didn't say "כל שהוא חייב בערלה חייב ברבעי" but rather "יש לו רבעי". But then the Rambam continued and wrote: "וכל שפטור מן הערלה אינו חייב ברבעי". Here the Rambam uses the terminology of "חייב" and "פטור" and not "יש לו" or "אין לו". From this it would appear that indeed, if the tree is פטור from ערלה it must be פטור from רבעי. For if he would not be פטור from רבעי he would necessarily be חייב in ערלה because the איסור of ערלה stems from the mitzva of רבעי as the Ramban explained. The Rambam cited the psukim in order to show that רבעי is written as a continuation of the mitzva of ערלה showing that ערלה is only a preparation for רבעי. Therefore it MUST BE that any tree that is פטור from ערלה is not חייב in רבעי because if it was חייב in ערלה then it would have to be חייב in רבעי. But this doesn't mandate that any tree that is חייב in ערלה is necessarily חייב in רבעי. Because as we saw - there is ALSO an איסור עצמי - independent איסור, of ערלה, not linked to רבעי. 

That is why the Rambam wrote at the outset that since the psukim link ערלה together with רבעי, this means that if the tree is חייב in ערלה then "יש לו רבעי". This doesn't mean that it is חייב in רבעי but rather it means that the tree must have the מציאות that has the capacity to have רבעי. The words "יש לו" mean that the tree COULD have רבעי but maybe practically it has no חיוב רבעי. 

So the words of the Rambam are very precise. If the tree is פטור from ערלה it is not חייב in רבעי - if it were חייב in רבעי it would be חייב in ערלה. And if the tree is חייב in ערלה then "יש לו רבעי" - it could theoretically have a רבעי obligation even though practically it might not.  

So we have resolved what the Rambam intended by quoting the pasuk and also that there is no question from the fact that according to some only a כרם is obligated in רבעי but other trees are obligated in ערלה alone. There must be a link between ערלה and רבעי [as we see from the pasuk] but that doesn't mean that PRACTICALLY SPEAKING if a tree has a דין ערלה it necessarily has a דין רבעי. There is also no question from the fact that trees in חוץ לארץ are חייב in ערלה but not in רבעי because it COULD have a דין רבעי for it is a tree with fruits. That is what the Kesef Mishna and Rashba meant when they said that the Rambam was only talking about ארץ ישראל but not חוץ לארץ even though the Rambam spoke in general terms. They meant that in חוץ לארץ as well there is a linkage between ערלה and רבעי even though in practice there is no חיוב רבעי.  

Middos Of The Avos And The Beis Hamikdash

Chazal say "גדולה הכנסת אורחים יותר מהקבלת פני השכינה" - Greater is hosting guests than receiving the face of the שכינה. This is derived from the fact that Avraham Avinu interrupted the visit from Above in order to receive guests.

This means that he was willing to forgo his own growth in order to give to others. He could have reached SUCH HIGH MEDREIGOS by continuing to be in the presence of the שכינה. But instead he decided to attend to the needs of three strangers. 

Moshe Rabbeinu similarly told Hashem after the cheyt ha-eigel: Either bear their sin or  "מחני נא מספרך אשר כתבת" - erase me from Your Book. This was a classic example of mesirus nefesh for the larger community. He was willing to lose his own levels and be erased from the eternal Torah on behalf of the Jewish people. 

That is the middah of Avraham Avinu: His chesed EXTENDED to others - התפשטות החסד! He nullifies himself and his own wants and needs in order to bring benefit to others. 

Yitzchak was the opposite: He was gevurah!! He focused on the central point of his soul and didn't allow it to spread in order that it should be completely concentrated on Hashem and His will and be revealed in all of its glory. The contraction of the self. "Akeidas Yitzchak" - The BINDING of Yitzchak. THAT is his middah. 

That is why the Beis Hamikdash is built on the place of Akeidas Yitzchak which represents the combination of the two pillars - chesed and gevurah [as the Sifri says]. In other words the Beis Hamikdash is comprised of concentrated kedusha in its very place together with the expansion of Kedusha to the whole cosmos. This is the incorporation of the middos of Avraham and Yitzchak in the place of the Beis Hamikdash. 

The middle of the road is the middah of Yaakov - Tiferes, that on one hand the kedusha is concentrated in the Torah [Tiferes is Matan Torah - see Brachos 58a]. On the other hand, the influence of the Torah expands to all of creation because the blueprint for the world was Torah and anyone can come and take it.     


[עפ"י הס' ואני תפילה עמ' כ"ח]

Why Are People Happy?

People are happy for one basic reason - because they have happy thoughts. 

People are unhappy for one basic reason - because they have unhappy thoughts. 

Reality is neutral. What matters is the INTERPRETATION that we give to our reality. 

A person can be in a fancy hotel and be happy or miserable. He can think happy thoughts: "I am alive, I am eating delicious food, I am with my family, I am rich etc. etc. etc."

Or unhappy thoughts: "For this I am paying 300 dollars a night? The food is terrible! I hate my job! My wife is really annoying - why is she so hyper-sensitive? Why can't she accept an apology? Why does she keep spending money on things that she doesn't need?! What is going to be with my daughter - she is doing terrible in school. Does she have learning disabilities? And what my son - he has been sick recently. Is it going to develop into something life threatening? If he dies my life will be ruined FOREVER. Oh do I miss my bubby. I am sooooo sad that she died [10 years ago]." And the list goes on.

So two people are enjoying the BEAUTIFUL BLUE SKY and sun of Miami Beach - one is filled with joy and the other is miserable. If being in Miami Beach MAKES one happy then how can this be? The answer is that being ANYWHERE doesn't MAKE one happy. Happiness is in the mind. A person thinks positive thoughts - he or she is happy. Negative thoughts - sad. [External reality can HELP contribute to one's thoughts and feeling but are not the final determining factor].

Some people [particularly women] think that if they would only be thin, they would be happy. Bad news - I have been thin every second of my life [although I am not a woman, but still - I have a girl's name] and I have been miserable PLENTY of times. So being skinny doesn't do it.

Some people are CONVINCED that if they become rich, they will be happy. Also false. There are COUNTLESS people who have FAAAAAR more money than you do who are completely miserable. Rich people kill themselves all the time. 

Happiness comes from the thoughts in your mind. 

Why don't we realize this? Because we are brainwashed!!! You see an advertisement which essentially promises you happiness if you purchase this item. You have to combat this and say [aloud is better:-)] "I can be happy WITHOUT this new smartphone". "I can be JUST AS HAPPY spending Pesach at home as I do spending Pesach with Shwekey in Vallarta!!" 

You can buy the phone [well - it depends which Rav you ask...] but don't think for a second that it will MAKE you happy. Maybe when you buy it you will TELL YOURSELF how GREAT it is to have this smartphone and you will be happy for a few minutes - but it won't last. Unless you CONTINUOUSLY tell yourself how happy you are that you have this smartphone. However, you will stop believing that thought after a while and if you don't believe the thought you again won't be happy.     

You can also go with Shwekey to Vallarta for Pesach and maybe you will have a GREAT TIME. But it is NOT the trip to Vallarta that made you happy but YOUR THOUGHTS about it. 

So stop buying into the plethora of ads you see. NONE OF THEIR PRODUCTS will MAKE you happy. They just want your money and manipulate you into coughing it up by convincing you that it will make you happy to purchase this product. 

So remember - HAPPINESS IS A FUNCTION OF ONE'S THOUGHTS THAT CREATE EMOTIONS. 

Orlah - Part 5

Says the Rambam [Maaser Sheni 10-1] :

כל שהוא חייב בערלה יש לו רבעי וכל שפטור מן הערלה אינו חייב ברבעי שנאמר שלש שנים יהיה לכם ערלים וגו' ובשנה הרביעית:

[The restrictions of] neta reva'i applies to all [plants to which] the prohibition of orlah applies. And all [plants] that are exempt from orlah are not obligated for neta reva'i, as [Leviticus 19:23-24] states: "For three years [your plants] will be orlah.... In the fourth year".

The Kesef Mishna says [and the Rashba as well in the Tshuvos 3-231] that the Rambam is talking only about ארץ ישראל but in חוץ לארץ there is ערלה but there is no רבעי as the Rambam says in Hilchos Maaser Sheni [9-1] and in Maachalos Asuros [Chapter 10]. 

That is a difficult pill to swallow since the Rambam here writes a general rule and mentions NO exceptions implying that it would apply EVERYWHERE. 

Not only that, but the Rambam writes that this din emerges from the pasuk. Where do we see in the pasuk that the din applies only in ארץ ישראל? 

Moreover, this din is already taught in the Yerushalmi [Orlah 1-1] where it says that if one plants a tree for three years with the intention that it should be a fence and then decides in the 4th year that he wants the fruits, there is no din of נטע רבעי because of the rule that if there is no ערלה there is also no רבעי. But the Yerushalmi doesn't cite the pasuk cited by the Rambam because this rule cannot be derived from the pasuk as we explained - for if we say [see Brachos 35 quoted earlier] that only a כרם is obligated in רבעי it must be that רבעי and ערלה are not interconnected [because in most fields there is NO דין רבעי even though there IS a דין ערלה]??!! So unlike the ruling of the Rambam "כל שהוא חייב בערלה יש לו רבעי", sometimes there is no דין רבעי even though there is a דין ערלה! How then does the Rambam derive a rule from a pasuk when this rule doesn't jive with a prominent opinion in the Gemara? And when the Yerushalmi itself neglected to quote this pasuk??

We also have to understand where the source of the Rambam is to say that whenever there is a obligation of ערלה there is also an obligation of רבעי. All it says in the Yerushalmi is that if there is no ערלה there is also no רבעי but not the converse - that if there is ערלה there is necessarily also רבעי? [See Derech Emunah who discusses this].

We also have to understand the סדר of the Rambam, for in the 9th perek of Hilchos Maaser Sheni the Rambam teaches דיני רבעי and in the 10th דיני ערלה. Apparently these dinim that "[the restrictions of] neta reva'i applies to all [plants to which] the prohibition of orlah applies. And all [plants] that are exempt from orlah are not obligated for neta reva'i" should have been written in the 9th perek in the context of דיני רבעי [because they are teaching when the laws of רבעי apply]. 

In addition, in the 10th perek of Maachalos Asuros the Rambam first wrote the dinim of ערלה and only then the dinim of רבעי. Why does the Rambam change the order from what he writes in Hilchos Maaser Sheni?

In short, this Rambam is כולו מקשה אחת - VERY difficult to understand! 

[עפ"י דברי מו"ר הגאון הגדול רבי ד"י מן זצ"ל]

Monday, April 29, 2019

The Faith Of Avraham And Us

לע"נ סבי ר' שמואל פנחס בן ר' יעקב צבי

Avraham Avinu is called Avraham Ha-Ivri because the whole world is מעבר אחד - on one side and the rest of the world was מעבר אחר - on the other side. 

We cannot IMAGINE what it means to think differently than everybody else. The nature of the human being is to be influenced by his surroundings. Avraham Avinu was SUPERNATURAL. He KNEW that Hashem runs the world and the fact that EVERY website, EVERY newspaper, EVERY magazine, EVERY book, EVERY Professor etc. etc. denied that, didn't faze him. 

WOW!! 

Chazal say that Avraham said that it CAN'T BE that the wold has no מנהיג - leader. This would imply, said Rav Dov Kook, that the other people agreed that the world was CREATED by Hashem. The point of dispute was whether he is STILL involved. They couldn't accept that. 

To believe that Hashem created the world is EASY! How can a world with such INTEGRATED COMPLEXITY create itself?? How could the HUMAN EYE alone, with all of its incredible complexity, create itself. IMPOSSIBLE. 

The test is to believe that Hashem is still involved. We see a lot of pain, suffering and seeming chaos around us. Where is He???

The answer is that we are descendents of Avraham Avinu and we KNOW that Hashem is involved in every aspect of the world. One way of seeing this with our very own eyes is to witness the UNBELIEVABLE history of the Jewish people - including our INCREDIBLE revival after the Holocaust. 

We have to connect to Avraham's deep Emunah despite the כפירה that we find all around us.       

Orlah - Part 4

The Zera Avraham [סימן י"ד אות כ"ב] discusses the איסור רבעי and suggests that it is really an extension of the איסור ערלה which is permitted if redeemed [see there]. The Derech Emunah [Orlah 9-1] also talks about this and notes the opinion of the Behag who only enumerates the mitzva of ערלה and doesn't enumerate the mitzva of נטע רבעי which would imply that they are one mitzva. He also quotes the Ramban [Rosh Hashana 10a] who writes regarding נטע רבעי in חוץ לארץ, that from the fact that the mishna says that "any mitzva that depends on the land is only kept in the Land [Eretz Yisrael] except for Orlah" and רבעי is not mentioned, even though רבעי is an independent mitzva, we see that רבעי is not obligatory in חוץ לארץ [see there at length].  This would imply that ערלה and רבעי are two distinct concepts, as the Ramban noted that רבעי is an independent mitzva.

Based on what we said earlier, the correct understanding is not that the איסור רבעי is an extension of the איסור ערלה which is permitted when redeemed, but the opposite - the איסור ערלה is a result of the איסור רבעי. Since one should eat his first fruits in front of Hashem in the fourth year, it is forbidden to eat for the first three years [as we saw in the Ramban Al Hatorah]. Therefore the Behag correctly included them in the same mitzva since they are conceptually related. But as we said, there is also an aspect of the mitzva of ערלה that is NOT connected to the mitzva of רבעי and that is what the Ramban [Rosh Hashana 10a] meant when he said that רבעי is an independent mitzva. So when the mishna mentions ערלה being in חו"ל that is not a proof that the same applies to רבעי because maybe this din stems from the aspect of ערלה that is unrelated to רבעי. So ערלה is both connected conceptually to רבעי and also independent.  

[עפ"י דברי מו"ר הגאון הגדול רבי ד"י מן זצ"ל]        

The Power Of Mezuza



Opening his front door, the Rabbi found himself face to face with the local priest. "Rabbi, may I have a few words with you?" asked the priest.

"Of course, Father," replied the Rabbi somewhat nervously.

"Rabbi," began the priest, "It must be evident to you that in this town we are plagued by thieves. Scarcely a day passes without one of my flock coming to me bemoaning the fact that his house has been broken into. On the other hand, I have noticed that thieves do not bother you Jews nearly as much."

"Father, you are correct."

"Yes, but why is that?" inquired the priest.

"Look at this little box here on the side of my doorpost," said the Rabbi. "It's called a mezuza. We Jews believe that when we put a mezuza on the entrances to our houses, the Holy One, may His Name be blessed, protects both us and our property."

"In that case", replied the priest, "I must have one!"

Not wishing to be the cause of an incipient pogrom, the Rabbi reluctantly handed over a mezuza to the priest.

Some two weeks later the Rabbi was awakened by the sound of someone pounding violently on his door. Dressing himself hastily, he made his way down the stairs.

"Who's there?" the Rabbi asked tremulously.

"Open the door! Open the door!" screamed a voice on the other side.

Leaving the door on the latch, the Rabbi cracked the door wide enough to see the priest standing in front of him, his eyes wild with great distraught.

"What happened?" asked the terrified Rabbi. "Were you not protected from robbers?"

"I was! But these people were worse than robbers!" screamed the priest.

"Who?" asked the rabbi.

"Fundraisers!"

Orlah - Part 3

However, we cannot say that the ENTIRE idea of Orlah is that one may not eat the fruits for the first three years so that he can eat them in Yerushalayim with kedusha in the fourth, because there are Amoraim [Brachos 35a] who hold that רבעי [eating in the fourth year] applies only to a כרם [vineyard] while everyone holds that Orlah applies to all trees. So we see that there is more to Orlah than just not eating for three years in order to bring the first fruits to Hashem in the fourth [as the Ramban said and compared it to Bikkurim] because most fruits don't have a din of רבעי and Orlah stands alone. 

In addition the Rambam [Maachalos Asuros 10-15] holds that נטע רבעי [eating in the 4th year] doesn't apply to fruits in חוץ לארץ and only Orlah applies. But according to the Ramban there should be no איסור ערלה since there is no רבעי?!  So again we see that ערלה and רבעי are not necessarily linked. 

Rashi [סוטה מ"ג: ד"ה קלא אית להו] writes that according to the opinion that רבעי only applies only to a כרם, there is no ערלה if there is only one sapling. There must be a complete כרם. The Rishonim [Baal Hamaor Brachos 35, Ramban Rosh Hashana 10a, R' Akiva Eiger Gilyonei Hashas, Chasam Sofer Yo"d 285] wonder where Rashi gets this from. The Sefer Hashlam explains that Rashi certainly holds that ערלה applies even to one tree and Rashi means that נטע רבעי applies only to a complete כרם [I hope to explain why he writes "ערלה" and not "נטע רבעי"]. If so, how does one tree have a din of ערלה if there is no din of נטע רבעי [according to the Ramban who links the two]. 

We see again from this that ערלה applies to fruits independent of the obligation to being the fruits fruits to Hashem in Yerushalayim. So the rationale for the איסור can be as the Ramban writes further that it is unhealthy to eat fruits in the first three years or as the Rambam says in the Moreh Nevuchim [quoted by the Ramban] that the idea is to prevent witchcraft or for other possible reasons. However, the first reason mentioned by the Ramban still applies [as implied by the words of the pasuk, as we explained earlier]. Therefore, a tree planted for a fence which by definition can't be brought to eat before Hashem, because it is not a tree for eating and thus precluded from the mitzva of נטע רבעי, is not subject to the איסור of ערלה [even though the other reasons for the איסור still apply]. Just in חוץ לארץ or when it is not a כרם [according to the opinion that only a כרם is obligated in רבעי] even though there is no din to bring it to Yerushalayim before Hashem, since there is no הפקעה [preclusion] in its essence from being brought before Hashem, the איסור of ערלה applies.  

  


Orlah - Part 2

לע"נ סבי ר' שמואל פנחס בן ר' יעקב צבי

The Ramban writes: 

וטעם המצוה הזאת, לכבד את ה' מראשית כל תבואתנו מפרי העץ ותבואת הכרם, ולא נאכל מהם עד שנביא כל פרי שנה אחת הלולים לה', והנה אין הפרי בתוך שלש שנים ראוי להקריבו לפני השם הנכבד לפי שהוא מועט ואין האילן נותן בפריו טעם או ריח טוב בתוך שלש שנים, ורובן לא יוציאו פירות כלל עד השנה הרביעית, ולכך נמתין לכולן, ולא נטעום מהם עד שנביא מן הנטע שנטענו כל פריו הראשון הטוב קדש לפני השם, ושם יאכלוהו ויהללו את שם ה'. והמצוה הזאת דומה למצות הבכורים.

Explains the Ramban that the idea of Orlah is that we want to honor Hashem by giving Him our first fruits. For the first three years the fruit is not worthy of being brought before Hashem and have a poor taste and smell and also most trees don't produce fruits until the fourth year, so we wait until the four year and then bring all the fruits to Yerushalayim and eat them in front of Hashem. This mitzva is similar to Bikkurim. 

This is also the explanation of the Chinuch [רמ"ז]. See also Raavad [Maachalos Asuros 10-14], Shulchan Aruch Yo"d 294-17 and in the Tshuvos Chasam Sofer Yo"d 285 he discusses the inferior nature of Orlah fruit. 

But we have to understand! Since the Ramban wrote that the mitzva is similar to Bikkurim, why does the mitzva of Bikkurim require one to bring only ONE fruit to Yerushalayim while Orlah requires that one bring ALL of the fruits [in the fourth year]? What is the difference?

So we have to say that since Bikkurim is a mitzva on the first FRUITS, one fruit [per species] is enough, while the requirement of Orlah devolves on the first produce of the TREE and therefore one needs to bring ALL of the first produce of the tree. Indeed, we see that the pasuk relates to the tree:

   "ונטעתם כל עץ מאכל וערלתם ערלתו וכו'". 
And in the the first mishna in Orlah it says:

"הנוטע לסייג ולקורות פטור מן הערלה". 
If one plants a tree as a fence or for beams it is not obligated in Orlah. 

The Yerushalmi there derives this law from the pasuk "עץ מאכל" that only a tree that is designated for eating is obligated in Orlah [see there]. The question is that these are the same fruits he could have planted for eating which would be obligated, so how could they be פטור?? This proves our point: That the halacha relates not to the fruit but to the TREE, that if it is fruit TREE, all of the fruits go to Hashem ["יהיה כל פריו קודש הילולים לי-ה-ו-ה"]. But if it is not a fruit tree, since it was planted as a fence etc. there is no din that the fruits go to Hashem. 

According to this, the words "וערלתם ערלתו" mean that indeed as far as the tree itself is concerned, the fruits are "closed off" and "distanced" since they have not yet been brought to Hashem and they may not be brought to Hashem until the 4th year as the Ramban we cited explained the rationale [its inferior quality]. However this is just a rationale and סברא, but we have not yet been told that there is an obligation and biblical prohibition on benefiting from it since the first produce has not yet been brought to Hashem [the Rambam compared Bikkurim with Orlah and when it comes to Bikkurim the fruits are NOT forbidden before the first fruits are brought]. So the pasuk continues and tells us that there is a commandment and prohibition to close off and distance those fruits that are forbidden by dint of logic [inferior quality - the Ramban]. That is the meaning of the continuation of the pasuk "שלש שנים יהיה לכם ערלים לא יאכל". An absolute prohibition. This is through "וערלתם ערלתו את פריו", meaning that even though the law relates to the tree [as we said], this has nothing to do with not using the trees and branches of the tree [which anyway don't go to Hashem]. Rather it is through "וערלתם את פריו" - that the law of the tree is fulfilled through the fruits by not eating them before the first fruits are brought to Hashem. That explains the לשון יחיד - relating to the singular tree and not to the multiple fruits. 

[עפ"י דברי מו"ר הגאון הגדול רבי ד"י מן זצ"ל]            




Orlah - Part 1

לע"נ ר' שמואל פנחס בן ר' יעקב צבי 

The pasuk says [Vayikra 19-23]:

וְכִי־תָבֹ֣אוּ אֶל־הָאָ֗רֶץ וּנְטַעְתֶּם֙ כׇּל־עֵ֣ץ מַאֲכָ֔ל וַעֲרַלְתֶּ֥ם עׇרְלָת֖וֹ אֶת־פִּרְי֑וֹ שָׁלֹ֣שׁ שָׁנִ֗ים יִהְיֶ֥ה לָכֶ֛ם עֲרֵלִ֖ים לֹ֥א יֵאָכֵֽל׃

When you come into the land, and have planted all kinds of trees for food, then you shall count their fruit as forbidden. Three years shall they be forbidden to you. It shall not be eaten."

The pasuk seems easy and straightforward. But wait.... 

Rashi says: 

וערלתם ערלתו – ואטמתם אטימתו, יהא אטום ונסתם מליהנות ממנו.


meant lit., you shall close its closing (regard it as enclosed): the meaning being that it shall be, as it were, closed up and barred so that no benefit may be derived from it.

Targum Unkelos renders - ותרחקון רחקא ית אבה - You should surely [double usage of the word ריחוק] distance it.

We have to understand both Rashi and Unkelos. Why the double language of אטימה [closing] according to Rashi and the double distancing according to Unkelos?


We also have to understand the end of the pasuk: 
שלש שנים יהיה לכם ערלים לא יאכל
Three years they shall be forbidden to you, they shall not be eaten.


We already said in the first part of the pasuk that it is ערלה?! Just tell me "three years" and the ערלה part I already know from a second ago?! [See Pesachim 21b where various drashos are made on this. We would like to know the simple meaning of the pasuk].


Also, the pasuk begins by referring to the ערלה with לשון יחיד, as it says וערלתם ערלתו which is a לשון יחיד. Then the pasuk shifts to לשון רבים as it says יהיה לכם ערלים. [See the Malbim on the pasuk who explains that the Medrash had this question].

[עפ"י דברי מו"ר הגאון הגדול רבי ד"י מן זצ"ל]




  



Vacation From Learning?

Rav Shachter Shlita on Bein Hazmanim. The man knows a LOT! But there is one thing he doesn't know - that one is supposed to stop learning during Bein Hazmanim....

Reminds me of the story of the Rebbetzin of Rav Nisan Alpert ztz"l [talmid of Rav Moshe Feinstein and Ra"m in Y"U]: She called the Yeshiva office to ask if there was ever a vacation. They told her that there was [OF COURSE]. She said that she didn't know because her husband has been going in every day for years no matter what...

Back to Rav Shachter: one of his close talmidim once told me that over Pesach the Rav learned all of Pesachim, Chagiga and Beitza [and not just the mishnayos]. It goes without saying that during this time he was also "hocked" with shylos and had other obligations [like being a husband, father and grandfather]. 

Link

I just came across this today. I don't think I ever heard it before. From about the 2 hour 8 minute point it gets exciting [for me at least]. From a PREVIOUS GILGUL!!! Much has happened since then.... 

AIPAC Speakers

The AIPAC lobbying group does a lot of good. Any group that lobbies governments on behalf of Israel's good gets our thumbs up.

That being said - I saw a few minutes of the recent conference which took place. I listened to three of the speakers. One was a devout Catholic who gave a whole drasha about loving our enemies. He neglected to mention that he firmly believes that everyone in that room is going to hell because they don't accept Jesus. He DID mention that he is close friends with "His Holiness" the Dalai Lama. He however neglected to explain how someone can be holy when according to his belief system such a person is a sinner who is also eternally damned. But I guess that this is the 21st century - so anything goes. All faiths are true.... Why should Jews, many of them who daven three times a day and seriously learn Torah on a daily basis, listen to this man when they can listen instead to people who represent their own belief system?? Some would say that listening to other people with whom we disagree expands one's horizons. Right - but we have to be very careful about that because hearing false opinions is poison to one's brain and soul [עי' רמב"ם הל' עבודה זרה ב ג]. And in this case, people's defenses are down because they assume that he believes what we believe and he is on our side. He is not [although he may be a really decent guy]. 

Another speaker was the Gentile mayor of New York City. He stressed about 17 times that he is a Liberal Progressive Democrat. But he knew how to say all the Jewish words, including "Shabbos" and "kippah". His value system is for the most part diametrically opposed to ours [which is what he was alluding to - but he still likes us...]. Progressives want to change traditional values - religious Jews wish to preserve them. Maybe his saving grace was that he affirmed that Israel has the right to exist [and I am saying that as a Progressive Liberal Democrat!!]. Shkoyach. Thanks for your thumbs up!!:-) He also proclaimed that if the Arabs get their own state then there will be peace in the region. The level of naivete is astounding. The Arabs publicly proclaim that they want to wipe the Jews off the face of the planet. After all of the territorial concession over the last 70 years Jews still live under constant threat. But if they just self govern, those refined, gentle people will allow the Jews to live in peace. AHHHHHHHH!! When idiocy meets stupidity.  

Yet another person chosen to address the audience is the head of a left wing secular party in Israel. The platform of this party is that Shabbos should be a national day of rest in the traditional sense. On the other hand, it ALSO says that they support the right for all stores to be open on Shabbos and that there should be public transportation. Stiiiiraaaaaaa! They are also in favor of giving a stamp of approval to any two men who choose to have a sexual relationship and consider them married. The pasuk in the same Tanach that we use as the source of our right to live in Israel, also says "If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them."  But that doesn't faze them. And their leader is chosen to address this crowd of Jews, many of whom actually accept the Torah as binding.  

Sad and unfortunate. 

Inspiring

According to the ruling of the Chief Rabbinate, Yom Hashoah should be commemorated on Asarah Bi-teves. According to many Gedolei Yisrael and Roshei Yeshiva, the correct day for Yom Hashoah is Tisha B'av. However, the Israeli government decided on the 27th of Nissan and that is when it is generally commemorated. That being the case - there is a series of shiurim given on questions that came up during the Holocaust that was given about a decade ago [OHHHHH HOW TIME FLIES!!!]. 

Here is one and another [about 2 dozen in the series]. Besides the halachic knowledge gained, it is nothing less than awe inspiring to see the Mesirus Nefesh of Jews to keep the halacha under the worst of conditions.   

Sunday, April 28, 2019

Lavud Lihachmir

לע"נ סבי ר' שמואל פנחס בן ר' יעקב צבי

The halacha is the 4 tefachim of סכך פסול serve to disqualify a sukka. What is the din if the סכך has 2 tefachim of סכך פסול next to which is less than three tefachim of air space and then two more tefachim of סכך פסול? In other words, does לבוד serve to disqualify the sukka by connecting the four tefachim of סכך פסול? 

This question was posed by Tosfos [Sukka 17a ד"ה אילו]: 

ומיהו היכא דאיכא שני טפחים סכך פסול ושנים של סכך פסול ואויר מפסיק ביניהם פחות מג', איכא לספוקי אם שני הפסולין מצטרפין לארבעה לפסול את הסוכה דשמא כיון דאויר מפסיק בינתים, לא מצטרפי, או שמא כיון דאין באויר ג', מצטרפין.

Tosfos continues:

ומיהו היכא דליכא בפסולים ד' ואויר פחות מג' מפסיק ביניהם, אין האויר משלימו לארבעה, במה שחושבו כסתום מחמת לבוד...

However, where the two lots of Pasul S'chach combined measure less than four Tefachim, the air in between will not complete the Shi'ur of four Tefachim, due to the fact that it is considered closed on account of L'vud ...


דלא אמרינן לבוד להחמיר

 Because we do not apply לבוד if it involves a stringency.

We have to understand Tosfos. If we don't apply לבוד להחמיר then why can't we resolve Tosfos' first query as to whether we say לבוד to connect the two and two tefachim with the less than three tefachim airspace in between?? The answer should be "NO" because we don't say לבוד להחמיר. We only apply לבוד to be lenient and kasher a sukka. But Tosfos doesn't say that. Why not?

The answer must be that we have to distinguish between לבוד as a "connector" and לבוד as a "closer". לבוד cannot "close" an open area allowing us to see the airspace as sealed up with סכך if that will result in a חומרא [i.e. a disqualification of the sukka]. But we can possibly view the airspace as connecting the two disparate parts [and it is as if there is no airspace] even if that will result in the sukka being פסול. [See the Pri Megadim סי' תרל"ד who talks about the two forms of לבוד]. 

Rebbe Akiva Eiger didn't understand Tosfos' first question, for EITHER WAY the sukka is פסול! If we say לבוד then the airspace connects the two lots of סכך פסול and all together you have 4 tefachim of סכך פסול so the sukka is disqualified. Or even if we see the airspace as being closed with סכך, the sukka will be פסול because the סכך that halachically closes the open area is סכך פסול [because that is the nature of the סכך on both sides]. If we don't apply לבוד the sukka will ALSO be פסול because the small amount of airspace will disqualify the sukka. The only reason we normally require 3 full tefachim of airspace is because less than that qualifies as לבוד. But if we don't apply לבוד here [because it will result in a חומרא] then even less than three tefachim of airspace will disqualify the sukka. So HOWEVER YOU SPIN IT the sukka is pasul so what is Tosfos asking??!!    

The Kehillas Yaakov [סימן י"ג] suggests that indeed we say לבוד meaning that the airspace is viewed as closed off but NOT with סכך פסול as RA"E assumed but as neither סכך פסול nor סכך כשר. Thus there is no airspace but there is also not 4 tefachim of סכך פסול. See his words for more explanation. 

Time Travelling

The bartender says, “We don’t serve time travellers in here.”
A time traveler walks into a bar.

I Think Therefore I Am

René Descartes walks into a bar. The bartender says, “Would you like a beer?”
Descartes replies, “I think not,” and promptly disappears

Rebuking Children

Q: How do mathematicians scold their children?

A: “If I’ve told you n times, I’ve told you n+1 times…”

Eavesdropping

“Recently I’ve been attending meetings of Eavesdroppers Anonymous – not that they know!”

Childhood Medical Condition

"When I was a kid I had a condition that forced me to eat dirt three times a day. Fortunately, my older brother told me I had it". 

Being Sarcastic

I am trying to get people to join my "Sarcastic Club" but it is hard for me to tell if they really mean it. 

The Din Of "לכם"

לע"נ סבי ר' שמואל פנחס בן ר' יעקב צבי 

The opinion of Tosfos [Sukka 35] is that one cannot be yotzei with an Esrog of Tevel because the Kohen is a partner in the Esrog and it thus lacks the requirement of לכם. The Maharit Algazi asks on this Tosfos from the machlokes haposkim as to whether one is פטור from הפרשת תרומות and מעשרות if he buys the fruits after מירוח [the smoothing of the pile - see Bava Metzia 88a with Tosfos ד"ה תבואות]. 

BUT WAIT!!! How can he sell the Tevel in the first place?? If it lacks the quality of "לכם" - as we see with regard to the halacha of an Esrog of Tevel, then it should also lack the quality of "לכם" when it comes to selling it and one should not be allowed to sell it??  

Answered Maran Rosh Hayeshiva HaRav Hutner ztz"l: The Ramban [in Sukka] asked on Tosfos - Why should Tevel be considered the property of the Kohen? The owner can separate his תרומות and מעשרות from other produce and keep the entire Esrog for himself??! 

The key to solving these issues is a principal of the Mikdash Dovid [of HaRav Dovid Rappaport ztz"l Rosh Yeshiva in Baranovitch] in Hilchos Terumos [אות ה]: The primary terumah is is הפרשה מיניה וביה - separating from the fruit itself and not from elsewhere. If one so chooses, he may then prefer option "b" - and separate from elsewhere. But option "b" requires a NEW קביעות, a new establishment of teruma and not the primary קביעות which is from the very produce one is rectifying. עיין שם דבריו העמוקים!!!

Now Tosfos makes a lot of sense!! Since at the time one takes the Esrog it stands to be separated from and given in part to the Kohen, it cannot be considered "לכם". The fact that he can make the Esrog his own by separating Terumah from elsewhere doesn't make it his. In order to be considered "לכם" it must be his מיניה וביה - from the Esrog itself. Option "b" is a new קביעות and doesn't impact the halacha of "לכם", since on the basic, primary level it belongs at this time to the Kohen. 

However when it comes to the concept of "בעלות" - ownership, Tosfos agrees with the Ramban that it suffices that one can remove the Kohen from his share in the Esrog and make it his by separating from elsewhere, in order that it should be considered "לכם". [The standard for לכם with respect to קיום המצוה is more strict than it is for דין בעלות].   

  [משנת תשל"ד] 

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR TIME!!

In memory of my grandfather R' Shmuel Pinchas ben R' Yaakov Tzvi whose yahrtzeit is today כ"ד ניסן!!! 

תהא נשמתו הטהורה צרורה בצרור החיים!!!

The pasuk says [Tehillim 100-4]:

כִּי אֶלֶף שָׁנִים בְּעֵינֶיךָ כְּיוֹם אֶתְמוֹל כִּי יַעֲבֹר וְאַשְׁמוּרָה בַלָּיְלָה.

A thousand years in Your sight
are like a day that has just gone by,
and like a watch in the night.
 
Explains Rav Yitzchak Arama [1420-1494] that Hashem gives us all the years we need to live in order to fulfill our purpose as if we lived a thousand years!! 

However, people WASTE TIME ON NONSENSE and then complain that they they don't have enough time to complete the tasks that they began. So the pasuk is saying that it is like we have a thousand years to fulfill our purpose on earth [i.e. we have sufficient time]. But in practice it is like a day that has gone by and like a watch in the night. The Gemara says in Brachos [3a] that the night is split up into three parts. During the first, חמור נוער - a donkey brays. That symbolizes that things are REALLY DARK AND GLOOMY and we are immersed in matters of חומר - materialism [עי' מהר"ל בדרוש על התורה ומכתב מאליהו ח"ה עמ' 410]. 

That is why we feel we have no time - because we waste so much of it!! This pasuk is therefore a GREAT התעוררות to take advantage of EVERY SECOND with which we have been gifted. The "present" is called the "present" because it is indeed a present!! 


In his words:


החסד הגדול הזה .... והוא מה שנתן האל יתעלה לכל איש מהאנשים קצב זמן ומדת ימים שיערה חכמתו אותם יספיקו להשלים להם כל אחד מלאכתו המוטלת עליו כאלו חיה אלף שנים. והנה בני האדם יוציאו ימיהם לריק ונחשבים בעיניהם לאין ויתלוננו על קוצר זמנם שלא הספיק בידם לעשות דבר גדול או קטן מאשר החלו לעשות. ושיעור הכתוב כי הזמן שהוא נחשב לאלף שנים בעיניך למלאת בו כל האדם די מחסורו. הוא נחשב אצלנו כיום אתמול כי יעבור ואשמורה בלילה כלומר שסוף מה שיגיעהו מיומו זה הוא היותו בסוף האשמורה הראשונה הנמשכת לו כי אז היא תכלית אפלת הלילה אשר עליה אמרו (ברכות ג' א) משמרה ראשונה חמור נוער:

[עקידת יצחק ויקרא שער נט - פרשת שמיני]

We have all heard of the concept of "ביטול זמן". Why is it called that? We are not מבטל the זמן, we are rather מבטל OURSELVES when we waste time???

The answer is that the Mekubalim teach that time is a concrete reality infused with great potential. When we don't use it to the fullest, we literally are מבטל the זמן!!

Can Two Halachos Li-Moshe Mi-Sinai Work Together To Kasher A Sukka?

לע"נ החבר ר' מרדכי צבי בן ר' אהרן מנחם שיום הפטירה שלו חל בשביעי של פסח, אביהם של ידידי נפשי האהובים הר"ר חיים שרעק שליט"א והרב הגאון רבי משה שרעק שליט"א.

יה"ר שזכות התורה תעמוד לר' מרדכי צבי ז"ל ויקויים בו בקרוב "הָקִיצוּ וְרַנְּנוּ שֹׁכְנֵי עָפָר" יחד עם כל מתי עם ישראל!

Says the Gemara [Sukka 4a]:

היתה גבוהה מכ' אמה ובנה איצטבא באמצעיתה אם יש משפת איצטבא ולדופן ארבע אמות לכל רוח ורוח פסולה פחות מארבע אמות כשרה


If the sukka was more than twenty cubits high and one built a platform in the center of the sukka, if there is from the edge of the platform to the wall in each and every direction a distance of four cubits, it is unfit, as the platform has no walls. If the distance is less than four cubits, then it is fit.

מאי קא משמע לן דאמרינן דופן עקומה 

The Gemara asks: What is this halacha teaching us? Is it that we say that the halacha of curved wall applies to the halachot of sukka?

The Ran writes:

"ולפי שיטה זו ג"כ ע"כ כשהדפנות מגיעות לסכך עסקינן אבל אם אין דפנות מגיעות לסכך ליכא למימר דופן עקומה".  

The Ran says that we can only say דופן עקומה if the walls reach the schach. But if the walls don't reach the schach and we need to say גוד אסיק [the walls magically-halachically extend upwards] then we can't ALSO utilize the rule of דופן עקומה. It would seem that the Ra"n holds that we can say ONE הלכה למשה מסיני but not two in one case. 

The Tur [ריש ס' תרל"ב] argues:

 "אבל פחות מד"א כשירה דאמרינן דופן עקומה אפילו אין הדופן אלא י' טפחים והגג גבוה ממנו הרבה שאנו רואין הדופן כאילו עולה עד למעלה ואז נאמר דופן עקומה". 

He holds that we can say both גוד אסיק AND דופן עקומה at the same time. 

The Magen Avraham [תרל"ב סק"א] learns that the Shulchan Aruch paskens like the Ran that we say דופן עקומה only when the walls reach the schach and we don't have to say גוד אסיק. 

The Gemara says later [י"ח]:

אמר אביי אויר שלשה וכו' בסוכה קטנה, בקנים הוי מיעוט בשפודין לא הוי מיעוט


 Abaye said: If there is space measuring three handbreadths ... in a small sukka, if one diminished the space with branches it is an effective diminution; if he diminished the space with skewers, it is not an effective diminution and the sukka is unfit. The three handbreadths of skewers, while insufficient to render the sukka unfit, diminish the fit area of the sukka to the point that the measure that remains does not constitute a fit sukka.

Rashi explains that if one places branches thereby minimizing the gap of three tefachim, we can then say לבוד which allow us to view the remaining space as closed. 

Continues the Gemara: 

והני מילי מן הצד אבל באמצע פליגי בה רב אחא ורבינא חד אמר יש לבוד באמצע וחד אמר אין לבוד באמצע



The Gemara notes: And this applies only if the space is along the side of the sukka, in which case the principle of lavud applies. However, if the space is in the center of the sukka, Rav Acha and Ravina disagree with regard to the ruling. One said: The principle of lavud is applied even in the center of the sukka. And one said: The principle of lavud is not applied in the center of the sukka. Even if one diminished the space, the two sides of the roofing are not considered joined.

The Ran writes: 


"והא דנקט פלוגתא דאין לבוד באמצע גבי מיעטו, היינו לומר דלמאן דאמר אין לבוד באמצע כי אמרינן יש לבוד מן הצד דוקא כי מיעטו מצד הסכך אבל מיעטו מצד דופן לא, דלא תימא כיון דפחות מארבע אמות סמוך לדופן אמרינן דופן עקומה אפילו מיעוט מן הדופן הו"ל לבוד מן הצד קמ"ל דלא, משום דלא אמרינן דופן עקומה ולבוד כי הדדי". 

Once again we see from this Ran that we may not utilize two unique Halacha Li-Moshe Mi-Sinai's in the same instance. Therefore, if there is an empty space less than three tefachim at the edge of the schach next to the wall we can use the rule of לבוד to kasher the sukka. But if there is an empty space between the wall and the schach and one places branches next to the wall thereby leaving a space in between the branches and the rest of the schach, according to the opinion that holds that לבוד in the middle of the sukka is not kosher, this would not be kosher. For the only way to kasher it would be by seeing the branches as an extension of the wall - דופן עקומה - and then we would have to utilize together with that [i.e. דופן עקומה] the rule of לבוד [in order that it should be considered the end of the sukka and not the side]. Says the Ran - "Sorry - that doesn't work! You can't have two 'Hilchisas' [i.e. Halacha Li-Moshe Mi-sinai's] at work in one case".   

Rebbi Akiva Eiger [ח"א סי' י"ב] points out that the Ran here is consistent with his opinion earlier [on daf dalet]. There he says that you can't make a shidduch between דופן עקומה and גוד אסיק and here he says that you similarly cannot make a shidduch between דופן עקומה and לבוד. The same principal is at play: No utilizing two Halacha Li-moshe Mi-sinai's together. 

AWE-SOME! 

Rebbi Akiva Eiger adds that the Ran only asserts this opinion when the two "Hilchisas" are interdependent and they need to work in tandem. Like in the latter case - we first have to say דופן עקומה and only then can we say לבוד. Or in the former case - first we need to employ the rule of גוד אסיק [which is GREAT because גוד אסיק was looking for work.....] and only then can we say דופן עקומה. But if the two "Hilchisas" are essentially independent of one another, and they just happen to both apply in this case, we can use both of them.   

Rebbi A"E wonders about the ruling of the Tur and Shulchan Aruch [תר"ל ט]:

היו דפנותיה גבוהים שבעה ומשהו והעמידם בפחות משלשה סמוך לארץ כשרה אפילו הגג גבוה הרבה ובלבד שיהא מכוון כנגדן ואפילו אינו מכוון ממש רק שהוא בתוך שלשה כנגדו כשרה

If the walls are seven tefachim and change high and he placed them within three tefachim of the ground [making it ten tefachim all together with the help of לבוד], even if the roof of the sukka is much higher it is kosher provided that the schach is either directly above or at least within three tefachim of being directly above. 

Now, in order to get to לבוד, we first have to see the walls as extending upwards - גוד אסיק. Without גוד אסיק, the לבוד is meaningless [because it is a wall without schach above it]. So how can the Shulchan Aruch kasher a sukka where there are two "Hilchisas" that are interdependent?? This is against the rule of the Ran!! So why did the Beis Yosef not mention that this is a מחלוקת? And how could the Magen Avraham quote the Ran li-halacha without saying that this ruling is against his opinion? 

 Maran Rosh Hayeshiva ztz"l HaRav Hutner questioned Rebbi A"E's understanding of the Ran that we don't say two "Hilchisas" [which the Ran never actually said but was extracted from his words by RA"E] from an explicit Gemara that teaches that if a sukka that has two kosher walls, the third may be even a tefach wide and it is kosher not only with regard to the laws of sukka but with regard to the law of Shabbos as well. 

Rashi writes:

"מיגו דההוא טפח אגמריה רחמנא למשה במחיצות סוכה דליהוי ליה דופן שלימה לסוכה הוי דופן נמי בשבת דסוכה לענין שבת".


Rashi writes "דופן שלימה" ["complete wall"] which would lead one to believe [correctly] that he sees the tefach wall as extending further and being a complete entity. Therefore, even as far as the laws of Shabbos are concerned we have a full, valid wall. 

A simple use of logic would further lead us to assume that this halacha would include even a case where he placed the schach two tefachim away from where the actual physical tefach wide wall stands. How so? Elementary my dear Watson!! לבוד!!😊 It would emerge then that we have a case of לבוד [one Halacha LiM"M]  working in tandem with the law of the kosher tefach wide wall [a second Halacha LiM"M]!! So we have a case of TWO "Hilchisas" that are interdependent working together!! Not like, it would seem, the understanding of RA"E?!!

Rabbeinu Chaim Halevi [פ"ד מהלכות סוכה] explored the question as to whether the law that a רשות היחיד extends to the sky [Shabbos 7a] is because of גוד אסיק מחיצתא  - the walls of the רשות היחיד extend to the sky or because we say that if there are walls ten tefachim high, the רשות היחיד itself extends to the sky?

He proves that the רשות היחיד itself extends skyward and not the walls from the law of תל המתלקט עשרה מתוך ארבע וזרק ונח ע"ג חייב - the case of a mound that gradually attains a height of ten tefachim over a horizontal space of four amos, and one threw an object from the public domain and it came to rest atop that mound, he is liable [Shabbos 100a]. Even though there are no recognizable walls that would allow us to utilize the rule of גוד אסיק, we nevertheless say that the רשות היחיד extends skyward. This proves that the רשות היחיד itself extends and not the walls. 

Sounds GREAT!! 

But Maran ztz"l was skeptical.... Rashi there writes:

"תל המתלקט - שהוא מדרון והולך ומתלקט מעט מעט עד שמגביה י' מתוך ד"א הרי הוא כאלו זקוף כולו והוי רה"י במקום גובהו"

In other words, when the hill slopes [or inclines] upwards over 4 amos and then reaches a height of ten tefachim, we view this slope as if it were NOT slope but completely upright. Why is that necessary? Why can't we see it for what it is - a slope, and then consider the surface that is ten tefachim a reshus hayachid?! Maybe because we need straight walls in order to say ..... גוד אסיק! Not like Rabbeinu Chaim!! 

Nevertheless, for our purposes, it would seem to emerge from Rashi that we can only say גוד אסיק when the walls are upright but not when they are diagonal. 

If what we said is correct then we have a novel explanation of the Ran when he says that we can't say גוד אסיק and דופן עמוקה in tandem. It is NOT because we don't utilize two "Hilchisas" in one instance [as RA"E understood] but for a completely different reason - דופן עקומה is literally a "crooked [not upright] wall" while גוד אסיק only works in a straight line! So OF COURSE they can't work together!! However, the laws of לבוד and גוד אסיק can work together even though they are two "Hilchasas" and there is thus no conflict between the law of the Tur and Shulchan Aruch [סימן תר"ל ט] and the opinion of the Ran. That would explain why the Beis Yosef made no mention of any מחלוקת and why the Magen Avraham also neglected to mention that anyone argues with the Ran. 

We still have to explain the Ran where he says that we don't employ the rules of לבוד and דופן עקומה in tandem.

ועוד חזון למועד בעז"ה בל"נ!! 

[עפ"י שיעור מרן רה"י זצ"ל משנת תש"ל] 


Saturday, April 27, 2019

Designer Labels

“In many cases you are not buying a product but an “identity enhancer.” Designer labels are primarily collective identities that you buy into. They are expensive and therefore “exclusive.” If everybody could buy them, they would lose their psychological value and all you would be left with would be their material value, which likely amounts to a fraction of what you paid.”

Stuck In The Mud

Whatever wants to be created, manifested, done at this moment—to be aligned with that, you need to first accept whatever form this moment takes. Single out this moment only.

For example, if you are stuck in the mud somewhere, you don’t say, “Okay, I am in the mud, I have to accept it, and here I am. I’m not taking any action because I have to accept what is.” This moment is already always as it is, and there’s nothing you can do about that. That’s what you accept. By accepting the moment as it is, you create an opening. You can then choose to take the next step and that step will be much more powerful.

One COULD say "Oh, how did I get stuck in the mud! I am such an idiot!!" That is a person living in the past. 

Others would say "Oh boy, how am I going to look when I get out of the mud??" That is living in the future. 

MOST of our thoughts revolve around the past [that can't be changed] or the future [that isn't here yet so it is not relevant]. 

A successful person lives in the PRESENT. He accepts the present situation for what it is and then decides how to act NOW. 


Attack In Chabad Shul



At least one worshipper was killed and three injured Saturday when a teen gunman with “hate in his heart” opened fire with an assault rifle in a San Diego-area synagogue hosting a celebration for the last night of Passover.

Law enforcement sources have named the suspect in the deadly shooting as 19-year-old John T. Earnest, according to NBC News.

The San Diego Sheriff’s Department was called to the Chabad of Poway synagogue just before 11:30 a.m. local time after reports of a shooting there. The attack came exactly six months to the day that 11 people were massacred at the Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh — the deadliest attack on Jews in US history.

“It was an extremely chaotic scene with people running everywhere when we got here,” San Diego Sheriff’s Sgt. Aaron Meleen told reporters.

A woman whose husband was inside the synagogue said her spouse told her “one guy came in and shot everybody and was cursing,” congregation member Minoo Anvari told CNN.

Earnest was arrested a short distance from the synagogue, when a San Diego police officer headed to the scene spotted a vehicle matching a description of the shooter’s, Fox 5 San Diego reported. He jumped out of the car and surrendered.

Meleen said authorities were “confident that there are no shooters that are outstanding.”

The Palomar Medical Center of Poway received the four patients, a hospital spokesperson said. Poway Mayor Steve Vaus said one of the victims, an adult female, “succumbed to their wounds.”

The other victims — two adult males and one young girl — were hospitalized with non-life threatening injuries, officials said. All three were in stable condition.

The synagogue was targeted by “someone with hate in their heart … towards our Jewish community and that just will not stand,” Vaus said.

The mayor described the shooting as “hate crime,” citing statements Earnest reportedly made when he entered the synagogue, he told CNN.

Brave congregants stopped the gunman before he could shoot more.

“This shooter was engaged by people in the congregation, and those brave people certainly prevented this from being a much worse tragedy,” Vaus said.

The founder of the synagogue, Rabbi Yisroel Goldstein, was shot and lost two fingers, the Daily Beast reported.

Goldstein did not leave his congregation until he was finished speaking to them — calming their fears and pledging resilience,” Anvari told CNN.

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Where are we safe? 

Nowhere. 

Which is one of many reasons that we need Moshiach now.