I thank those holy people who responded and will enable the publication of the sefer.
I ask forgiveness if I offended anybody or wrote too harshly.
It is what the Ramban calls in the preface to his commentary when explaining his many disagreements with Rashi - תוכחה מגולה ואהבה מוסתרת - revealed rebuke and hidden love.
I prefer revealed love and hidden love.
Bi-ahava,
Me 
