Thursday, April 17, 2025

A Reason For Worry! And Hope!!!

From the Times of Israel [not my fault. It just appeared on my screen!!!]:

Shalom. My name is Esther Sperber and I am here because I am very worried.

I was born in Jerusalem, the oldest of ten children. I studied architecture at the Technion and came to New York to do a master’s degree at Columbia where I met my husband Bruce. Together, we raise our two daughters, who attend a Jewish Day School and we belong to a liberal Orthodox synagogue on the Upper West Side.

I am here because I am worried for Israel and I am worried for my own family. [Ed. note to Esther: I can refer you to a number of good therapists on the UWS and you can learn to deal with your worry w/o having to spread your poisonous ideologies to the world].

The political is personal.

I have the most incredible and diverse family (you couldn’t make this up if you tried) (Ed. note: Nor would I want to].

I am worried for my father.

My father, Rabbi Daniel Sperber, is an esteemed professor, Israel Prize Winner, and eminent Torah scholar. He believes in the value of K’vod Habriyot’, the dignity of every human. On this basis, he formed an independent Beit Din – religious court – to free women who were not able to get a divorce under the Israeli rabbinical court.

I am worried for my father because under the new laws, women’s rights will not be protected.

I am worried for my mother.

My mother made Aliya in 1969, bringing with her a deep American commitment to civil rights and feminism.

I am worried for my mother because under the new laws, minority rights will not be protected.

I am worried for my sister Avigail.

Avigail lives in Tel Aviv. She is a talented documentary filmmaker and a proud lesbian mother of two sons. In 2005 she founded Bat Kol, an organization for Orthodox and formerly Orthodox lesbians and non-binary people.

I am worried for Avigail because the freedom of artists and LGBTQ people will not be protected.

I am worried for my brother David.

David lives in Jerusalem with his wife Noa and their four young sons. David has a PhD in Art History and is studying at HUC to become a reform rabbi. David, Noa and their children celebrate their Judaism in their Reform community.

I worry for David and Noa because religious rights and pluralism will not be protected.

I am worried for my brother Yossi.

Yossi spent many years as an officer in the Israeli army and is now the principal of an Israeli secular high school.

I am worried for Yossi because the rights of secular Israelis will not be protected.

And I am worried about Yotam, his oldest son, who will be drafted into the army at a time of so much instability.

I can go on, and tell you how much I worry about my sister, Shoshi, who is on the far left, and my adopted sister Ariella who needs a lot of welfare support.

Because their rights, too, will not be protected.

But I will end with my sister Sara.

Sara and her family live in a small settlement by the Dead Sea. She is a centrist religious Zionist and although there is much we disagree on, we love and respect each other.

I worry for Sara because the rush to pass these terrifying laws is tearing Israeli society apart, bringing unprecedented financial instability, and rocking the always precarious security in the region.

But, I am also worried about my sisters and brother here in the American Jewish Community.

Why are you silent? Why is this not the center of our conversations at the dinner table, in our synagogue, at our Jewish schools?

We American Jews have something unique to contribute.

To paraphrase the song:

Sometimes דברים שרואים מכאן לא רואים משם.

Sometimes things you can see from here, in the US, you cannot see from there.

The Jewish community in America knows what it means to be a minority and to be protected by the law. We have been on the front lines calling out hate speech and hate crimes, protecting the separation of church and state, fighting women’s rights, voting rights, minority rights, and supporting immigrants and asylum seekers.

We hold these values dearly.

This is not a time to be polite or deferential. We Jews in America who love Israel should be proud of our values and speak up clearly.

Speaking up at a time like this is supporting Israel.

I am sure that you too are worried.

For your family. For your friends. For Palestinians, Reform and Conservative and Orthodox Jews, foreign workers, journalists, women, LGBTQ people.

Let’s fight together for our friends and family in Israel.

Let’s fight for my parents, for Avigail, for David, for Yossi and Sara and Shoshi and Shuli and Ariella.

We must be worried.

We must speak up.

And must support democracy in Israel.

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I too am worried!!!

I am worried about Kavod Shomayim!!! A Yid like Rav Professor Sperber [who lived near me for many years in the Old City. Esther went from the Old City to the UWS and I went in the other direction. BARUCH HASHEM FOR SAVING ME!!!] who has children like those he does. A massive Talmid Chochom, a genius, with a long beard, white shirt, tzitzis out, oversized black velvet kippah and nebach nebach look at what he produced. I am not blaming him. It is not his fault. He didn't raise them to become what they became [at least I assume, for example, he didn't educate his daughter to *marry* another woman or his son to be a mechalel Shabbos bi-farhesia]. 

I worry about the fact that David Sperber who is studying to be a Reform rabbi is named after his great grandfather HaGaon Rav Dovid Speber ztz"l who was one of the biggest poskim in pre-war Romania and the author of the famed שו"ת אפרסקתא דעניא and many other sfarim. ירידת הדורות on steroids, if you will. 

A TRAGEDY!!! 

And it is not just the Sperbers. There are so many families whose children have fallen away. That worries me. 

GREATLY!!!!

The parents suffer, the children suffer and the whole world suffers [sins affect the whole world in a negative way!!]. 

This past Shabbos we heard the last words of the last Navi which gives us hope. 

הִנֵּ֤ה אָנֹכִי֙ שֹׁלֵ֣חַ לָכֶ֔ם אֵ֖ת אֵלִיָּ֣ה הַנָּבִ֑יא לִפְנֵ֗י בּ֚וֹא י֣וֹם יְהֹוָ֔ה הַגָּד֖וֹל וְהַנּוֹרָֽא. וְהֵשִׁ֤יב לֵב־אָבוֹת֙ עַל־בָּנִ֔ים וְלֵ֥ב בָּנִ֖ים עַל־אֲבוֹתָ֑ם.

במהרה בימינו אמן!!!!