If you are involved in a relationship with a parent, spouse, child, friend etc. and it is not going the way you want it to, I have a GOLDEN piece of advice based [although not explicit] on our vast literature.
BUY A MIRROR.
Then look in the mirror and ask the person you see what HE/SHE can do to improve the situation. If there is nothing to do and it is ALL the other person's fault [highly unlikely], then you don't really have a problem after all.
The other person does.
Love and blessings!:)