Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Links

Gzeiros Chazal where the reason for the gzeira no longer applies. Dancing on Shabbos, medicine on Shaabos, gilui where there are no snakes etc.

Yisro: X-tianity and Islam in halacha, entering a church or mosque etc.
Note: Wouldn't suggest entering a mosque even if permitted....

  1. Can you kill someone who is being rodef a treifah?
  2. Does a goy get killed for killing a treifah?Can you be m'chalel Shabbos to save a treifah? Unborn child?
  3. Are you obligated to give up your life not to kill a treifah?
  4. Are you chayov misah for making someone a treifah?
  5. Are heart transplants permitted? Does it make a difference if the "donor" is a treifah?
  6. Does a child who is a treifah exempt his mother from yibum? 
  7. If there is only one lifesaving machine, can you take the treifah off the machine for the person that will live "chayei olam?
  8. Can you have to put the treifah on the machine knowing that it will be needed for someone who is classified as "chayei olam?

The Light Of Emunah


How you live if you have faith.

Seize The Moment

Rabbi Ron Yitzchak Eisenman


“It is better for a man to use a fine cup for one day, even if it breaks the next day”


 
One day a dispute broke in the Sanhedrin (T.B. Brochus 27b) and the initial consensus was to depose of Rabban Gamliel the head of the Yeshiva.


The sages offered the newly opened positon to Rav Eleazar ben Azariah.


Being a wise man, Rav Eleazar told them that he first had to consult with his wife.


She was not enthusiastic about the offer as she claimed that just as Rabban Gamliel was deposed, perhaps you too will soon be deposed.


Rav Eleazar answered his wife: “It is better for a man to use a fine cup for one day, even if it breaks the next day”.


What did he mean by this seemingly cryptic answer?


Did he want to be “King for the day?”


Why take a position which may soon be non-existent?


Perhaps the answer is something we all can learn from.


Rav Eleazar agreed with his wife that his tenure as head of the Sanhedrin may be short lived (as indeed it was); however, nevertheless he was adamant in his decision to accept the appointment.


Why was he so adamant in accepting the positon for even a day?


The reason is simple, life is short and who knows what tomorrow may bring.


The parable of the fine crystal glass is quite appropriate.


There are people who have fine china and glassware in their cabinets who are waiting for that ‘special occasion’ to use them.


Too often the dishes will remain stored, unused in their china closet only to be disposed of in the local dumpster by their children after they themselves have left this world.


I recall once attending the Shiva of a 62 year old father who had suddenly passed away.


At the home his son mentioned something which sent chills down my spine.


“My father had bought a boat which he planned to go sailing in on Sundays; however, he could not drag himself away from his work, notwithstanding he no longer needed the income.


Unexpectedly, he developed cancer and died soon after with the never-used-boat still sitting in its pristine state in his driveway.”


Obviously, no one is advocating we abandon our livelihoods and spend our days sailing along while work has to be done; however, when an opportunity to accomplish something arises and there is no ‘down-side’ in taking the position, grab it!


Rav Eleazar ben Azariah was teaching us that when you are given a chance to make a change in the world, as he was by being the head of the yeshiva for the day- embrace that opportunity.


Too many of us leave this world with our best china still sitting in our china closet never having been touched.


Years ago many people covered their couches in plastic slip covers.


Ostensibly the rationale for this behavior was to save the couch for when the ‘kids’ grew up and no longer had sticky grimy hands which could stain the precious furniture.


In the summer it was not a pleasurable feeling to settle into the plastic encased couch; your exposed skin stuck to the plastic and you had to peel yourself from the couch.


The plush couch became a plastic nightmare; however, too often and for too many of us, even when the kids have grown and moved on, the plastic remains in place as if the kids are still coming back.


Friends, Rav Eleazar was teaching us to: “seize the moment”.


Every single day of our lives we are given the opportunity to use a fine crystal glass; however, too often we refuse to “enjoy it” for fear of its breaking.


Tomorrow the glass may still break; therefore, utilize and accomplish what you can today, for tomorrow may be too late.

The Unfair Fare


From RabbiKaganoff.com

It had already been a really tough day. Now, on top of that, Mrs. Gartenhaus (all names in this story have been changed) was very unhappy with the cab driver she had hailed. Aside from his discourteous behavior, she sensed a certain shadiness to his personality. She just couldn’t wait to get home and get out of his vehicle.

To complicate everything, on her way home Mrs. Gartenhaus realized that she had no more money in her wallet — and she also realized that Mr. Gartenhaus would not be home from his chavrusa for a while. She really did not want to disturb his learning just because she had forgotten to bring enough money for the cab home. But what was she to do?

She wondered whether one of the neighbors might be home, and whether she could remember their phone numbers. Sure enough, Mrs. Horowitz’s phone number popped into her head — if only she were home. Mrs. G. dialed the number on her cell phone, and Baruch Hashem, Mrs. Horowitz answered! Mrs. G. quickly explained her predicament, and Mrs. Horowitz answered, “No problem. I have a 100 shekel bill in my wallet. That will be more than enough for your fare.”

Mrs. G. breathed an audible sigh of relief. “The fare should actually not be more than 40 shekalim, so I don’t need to borrow that much,” she told Mrs. Horowitz.

“I happened to check my wallet this morning and noticed that I have only one single 100 shekel bill,” Mrs. H. replied. “But feel free to borrow it. I have to go to the bank later today, anyway, to withdraw some money. I’ll send my daughter Channie outside to meet your cab.”

Mrs. Horowitz asked 13-year-old Channie to fetch the bill from her wallet and meet Mrs. Gartenhaus’s cab. Mrs. G., who was very relieved to escape the sleazy driver’s vehicle, paid little attention to the bill that she transferred from Channie’s hand to the cabby’s outstretched paw. Before receiving her change, she gratefully began to exit the cab.

“One minute,” the driver shouted gruffly, brandishing a 20 shekel bill in his hand, “You owe me another 20 shekalim!”

Mrs. Gartenhaus was at a loss. She assumed that Channie had given her the 100 shekel note her mother promised, but maybe there was some mistake. In the meantime, Channie had returned home, the driver was hissing, and Mrs. G. just wanted to get home and climb into bed.

Noticing one of her neighbors on the curb, she embarrassingly called out the window, “Do you, perhaps, have 20 shekels I can borrow?” Having successfully borrowed the additional 20 shekels, she paid the cabbie, and struggled into her house. Meanwhile, she was trying to figure out what went wrong in her communication with her wonderful neighbor, Mrs. Horowitz. And, only later, did she realize that she should have taken down the cabby’s license number and the name of his company.
After resting a while, she called Mrs. Horowitz to ask her if she could send one of her children over in order to repay her loan. “By the way, how much money did you send with Channie?” She inquired.

“I sent 100 shekel,” came the swift reply. “Why? Was there some problem?”

Mrs. G. told Mrs. Horowitz what had happened. “I’ll check with Channie, but I am pretty certain that I had only one 100 shekel bill in my wallet.”

Channie confirmed that she had found only one 100 shekel bill in the wallet.

How much must Mrs. Gartenhaus pay back to Mrs. Horowitz?

Does Channie have any legal responsibilities in this case?

Mrs. Horowitz called Rav Cohen to ask how much Mrs. Gartenhaus owes her. Although it might seem like an open-and-shut case, the halacha is anything but obvious, as we will see.
Rav Cohen mulled over the case, thinking over the complicated halachic topics this event encompasses. Clearly, both women want to do what is correct. Is it clear that Mrs. Gartenhaus owes 100 shekalim?

Legally, in this case, the claimant, usually called the plaintiff, is Mrs. Horowitz. She is placing a claim that Mrs. Gartenhaus borrowed 100 shekalim that Channie delivered. Mrs. Gartenhaus’ response is that she does not know how much money she borrowed. It might seem that Mrs. G. has a very weak defense: After all, Mrs. Horowitz is making a definite claim that Mrs. Gartenhaus owes her 100 shekalim, while Mrs. Gartenhaus’ only response is that she did not pay attention.
Halachically, Mrs. Horowitz’s position is called a bari, a person with a definite claim. Mrs. Gartenhaus’ response that she is unaware how much she owes makes her a shema, a defendant stating that she is uncertain. This case is the subject of a Talmudic dispute. Here is one case where this question is discussed:

Reuven borrowed a cow from Shimon and also rented a different cow. One of the cows died in a way that would make Reuven liable if he had borrowed it, but he would not have to pay if it was rented. Unfortunately, Reuven does not remember which cow was borrowed and which was rented, but Shimon is certain that the dead cow is the one that was borrowed and that Reuven is obligated to pay. Must Reuven compensate Shimon for the dead cow?

The halacha is that bari ve’shema lav bari adif, the certain claim of the bari is insufficient on its own to win the case. This rule is true even in a case where the shema should have known for certain whether the claim against him is valid, as in the situation of the dead cow (Bava Metzia 97b).

Therefore, Reuven does not have to pay for the dead cow.

Applying the principal to our case, it could be that Mrs. Horowitz would have to prove that she loaned 100 shekalim in order to require Mrs. Gartenhaus to pay the full amount. But this is true only when the claim is challenged.

Ah, but you’ll tell me, Mrs. Horowitz has a witness on her side which Shimon did not have. Channie can testify that the loan was indeed 100 shekalim!

By now, the yeshiva minds among us are racing with valid reasons why Channie’s testimony is insufficient to prove her mother’s case. Firstly, a single witness is not enough. Secondly, Channie is related to one of the interested parties. Furthermore, Channie herself is an interested party, nogei’ah be’eidus, in the litigation. If she denies that she received a 100 shekel bill from her mother, she exposes herself to a lawsuit from her mother claiming that she received money as an agent for which she cannot account. Although the likelihood of Mrs. Horowitz suing her own daughter for 100 shekalim is slim, it is still sufficient reason for Channie to be considered a nogei’ah be’eidus, making her testimony inadmissible.

Mrs. Horowitz has not yet exhausted her legal approaches. She may still stake a claim against Mrs. Gartenhaus, based on either of the following reasons:

1. Modeh bemiktzas. Mrs. Gartenhaus agrees that she borrowed money, but is challenging the amount of the loan. The Gemara calls this modeh bemiktzas, acknowledging part of a claim. The Torah requires someone who acknowledges part of a claim, and denies part, to swear an oath he does not owe the balance (Bava Metzia 3a et al.). If he does not want to swear, he must pay the balance of the claim.

2. Shevuas hesses. Based on Mrs. Horowitz’s definite claim that Mrs. Gartenhaus owes her 100 shekalim, Mrs. H. can insist that Mrs. G. swear an oath denying that she owes money. The Gemara calls this shevuas hesses, an oath to discourage defendants from denying claims that lack sufficient evidence (Shevuos 40b; Shulchan Aruch, Choshen Mishpat 87:1).

We will examine each of these legal arguments. In the first argument, modeh bemiktzas, Mrs. Horowitz is claiming 100 shekalim. Mrs. Gartenhaus acknowledges that she owes 20 shekalim, but is uncertain about the remaining 80 shekalim. Thus, to fulfill the Torah’s requirement to swear an oath, Mrs. Gartenhaus would have to swear that she definitely does not owe more than 20 shekalim, something she cannot do. What is the halacha in this situation?

The Gemara discusses this exact case: Reuven claimed that Shimon owed him 100 dinarim. Shimon responds, “I know that I owe you fifty, but I do not know about the other fifty.” Is Shimon obligated to swear on the remaining balance? And if so, what does he swear?

The Gemara rules that since Shimon cannot swear that he does not owe the balance, he is obligated to pay the full 100 dinarim (Bava Metzia 98a).

Thus, Mrs. Horowitz seems to have her case wrapped up. Mrs. Gartenhaus cannot swear that she definitely does not owe 80 shekalim. Consequently, she should be required to pay the full 100 shekalim.

Except for one detail: Has Mrs. Gartenhaus paid back the 20 shekalim? If she already paid back 20 shekalim, the case is halachically different. Now, Mrs. Horowitz is claiming 80 shekalim and Mrs. Gartenhaus is denying the entire claim. Thus, Mrs. G. is no longer modeh bemiktzas, someone who acknowledges part of the claim, but kofeir hakol, someone denying the entire claim. Although it may seem that there is not much difference between the two scenarios, halachically someone who acknowledges part of a claim must swear an oath min haTorah, whereas someone who denies the entire claim does not. The rationale for this distinction is beyond the scope of this article (Bava Metzia 3a).

This is where the other type of oath, shevuas hesses, comes into play. Since Mrs. Horowitz claims that Mrs. Gartenhaus definitely owes her 80 shekalim, she can insist that Mrs. G. swear an oath about the claim.

But one minute! Either way, there would be a technical responsibility to swear an oath. What is the difference whether Mrs. Gartenhaus is being asked to swear a oath because of modeh bemiktzas or as a shevuas hesses? Either way, there is an oath that she cannot swear!

However, there is a significant difference in halacha between the two oaths, which makes a big practical halachic difference in our case. If the oath is min hatorah, the fact that Mrs. G. cannot swear for certain to deny the claim works against her, as we explained above. However, if the oath is of the hesses variety, it is sufficient for Mrs. Gartenhaus to swear that she is unaware how much she owes (Shulchan Aruch, Choshen Mishpat 87:1). Thus, Mrs. Horowitz cannot insist that Mrs. Gartenhaus pay her the full sum. She must be satisfied with 20 shekalim and an oath from Mrs. Gartenhaus that she truthfully does not know how much she borrowed.

Rav Cohen reflected over the fact that batei din do not usually insist on oaths, but instead will suggest some form of compromise. Not that these two well-meaning ladies were about to pursue this matter in a beis din setting — they are two fine ladies who want to do what is halachically correct.

Then he realized that since Mrs. Gartenhaus should have checked how much money Channie gave her and she did not, that this factor is probably sufficient to make her obligated to pay.

The Rav asked Mrs. Horowitz to have Mrs. Gartenhaus give him a phone call.

The phone rings. Mrs. G. is on the phone. Rav Cohen asks her what happened, to see if the versions substantiate one another. They do. And it is also clear that Mrs. Gartenhaus wants to do what is correct.

Mrs. Gartenhaus paid the money in full, and as you can imagine, she never heard from the cabby again. Besides the halacha principles gleaned from her story, an added lesson is to check before handing over a bill, especially to an unscrupulous cab driver!

Chazzan Repeating Tefilla to a Tune



When I hear a chazzan repeating words to fit into tunes during tefilla, it upsets me. Am I correct to react that way?



The mishna (Berachot 33b) says that one who says “Modim modim” is silenced. The reason is that he appears to be addressing two deities, k’vayachol. R. Zeira (gemara, ad loc.) extends this halacha to Shema. The gemara asks from a baraita that calls repeating Shema meguneh (derogatory), implying that we do not go as far as to silence him. The gemara answers that it depends whether one repeated the statement as a whole or word by word. Rashi explains that to utter a coherent statement twice in succession may be taken as addressing two deities; repeating each word twice “only” appears like a mockery, which is a less serious affront. The Rif learns the opposite: repeating words looks like speaking to two deities and repeating sentences is generally “only” derogatory. The Shulchan Aruch (Orach Chayim 61:9) does not decide between the opinions, stating only that it is forbidden to repeat Shema in either form. Only if one feels that he had insufficient concentration is it proper to repeat a section (Mishna Berura ad loc.:22).
The problem of looking like addressing two deities does not apply to most passages of Kri’at Shema and tefilla (Beit Yosef, OC 61). Yet, many poskim write that the derogatory nature of unnecessarily repeating words exists throughout tefilla. The Maharam Shick (OC 31) objects on five grounds. The most serious one, which applies to parts of tefilla where one may not talk, is the matter of hefsek (extraneous interruptions). Rav M. Feinstein (Igrot Moshe, OC 22) while objecting to repeating words, says that is not always a hefsek. If one keeps the order of words intact, it is not a hefsek. His proof is from the fact that we allow one who did not concentrate when saying certain words to repeat them even though he was already yotzei. However, he reasons that if one repeats out of order, at least when meaning is lost, it is a hefsek which requires returning (see OC 104 regarding how far to return).
The Aruch Hashulchan (OC 338:8) uses his approach of finding justification for common practices that seem to contradict halacha when the people will not change their ways. He suggests that perhaps the problem of repeating words applies only in the places the gemara mentions.
Some of the Maharam Shick’s objections are subjective, such as that it is a less effective way to present our thoughts and needs to Hashem. Chazzanim will claim that the inspiration gained by using moving tunes to reach the tefilla’s ultimate goals justifies some repetition. Skeptics will counter that similar gains can be made without it and apply the Shulchan Aruch’s (OC 53:11) complaints about certain chazzanim showing off their voices for the wrong reasons. Of course, no two cases are precisely the same.

After summarizing that a little repeating of words in a way that does not change meaning, while far from ideal, is vaguely justifiable, let us say as follows. In an ideal world, a congregation would not allow its chazzanim to repeat words. However, many congregations include dear Jews who may not be aware of or careful about every halachic intricacy. There, it may not be realistic or worthwhile to take issue with those who repeat. Likewise, in a congregation where people do not generally repeat but a guest or someone who “missed the hint” repeats words, it does not pay to hurt feelings over it.
 
A rabbi may want to teach the halacha in a way that avoids hurting feelings. In general, we should criticize others very sparingly. This is especially true in our society, where people are used to freedom and react to criticism negatively ( at times with severe consequences). Only regarding a person or a setting (like a yeshiva) where people are willing to learn improved ways of performing mitzvot would we suggest correcting (privately) one who is unaware of these objections. Certainly, when nothing can be done about it, it is a shame to upset yourself.
 
[Machon Eretz Chemda]

Monday, February 2, 2015

Understand The Shittos Ha-rishonim In This Sugya Like You Never Have Before

A few insights into the sugya of מנה אין כאן משכון אין כאן that I was zocheh to gather together. Such a delicious sugya and painful to move on but we hope to return to you!! הדרן עלך!!:)

Love Heals

R' Aviner

An orphanage once conducted an experiment: The female teacher gave five kisses to each girl every day. They saw that the rate of the girls getting sick deceased by 20%. Then they gave an additional 10 kisses a day and the rate dropped by 40%. 20 kisses a day and… until they almost stopped getting sick more than the average rate. Wonder of wonders! These were poor orphans – but when they were hugged with all of one's heart, they could overcome, be healthy and live!

Similar research was done in elderly homes. When an elderly person is lonely, he deteriorates quickly. But an elderly person who has frequent family visits and feels loved – lives much longer. It is simple. Some elderly people have a dog or cat and this also strengthens their health and gives them longevity. It is not because the cat feds them, but because there is love. This is what sustains the elderly.

The same is true for someone who is alone – a widow or widower – a pet can be life-saving.
And all of this applies all the more so for a baby, a young child – in fact every person: love is life-saving.