Re this post: After all is said and done the ultimate goal is to fill yourself with love for all. The strong words written there don't change that in the slightest. To quote the Heilige Rashb"i הכל בחביבותא תליא - It is all about love. The great pleasure of life is overcoming one's natural, innate narcissism together with overlooking the many failings and inadequacies of others and filling yourself with love.

Hashem's name in the gemara is "Love".

He puts up with us and we should be happy to put up with others.

באהבה.

:-)