Monday, November 28, 2022

The Need To Control

“The more you try to manage your time with the goal of achieving a feeling of total control, and freedom from the inevitable constraints of being human, the more stressful, empty, and frustrating life gets. The reason that technological progress exacerbates our feelings of impatience is that each new advance seems to bring us closer to the point of transcending our limits; it seems to promise that this time, finally, we might be able to make things go fast enough for us to feel completely in control of our unfolding time. And so every reminder that in fact we can't achieve such a level of control starts to feel more unpleasant as a result.” 

  Oliver Burkeman, Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals