Regarding this post.
Women are sensitive beings. Very sensitive. The Beis Medrash is not a place for the very sensitive. It is a place of WAR. A battlefield. מלחמתה של תורה. No holds barred. Screaming, shouting and even insulting to prove a point [see the hasagos of the Raavad on the Rambam for example]. There is no room for feelings and it is rather a place of cold, rational logic.
If one relates to a woman in a "Beis Medrash mode" of relating it is about the worst aveirah in the Torah.
Always speak sweetly and softly to your wife, mother and daughters.