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Another reason that you shouldn't worry what others think of you - they aren't thinking of you!! You think about yourself all day long [what am I going to eat for lunch, I haven't davened mincha yet, I have to call mom, is there traffic on the GW, etc. etc.] and so too others think about themselves. They are much too busy to give you much thought. Maybe if you marry his daughter he will think about you a little more but still it will be minimal.