"There is no more of a "kosher" wife than one who fulfills her husbands will."
“It’s true that a kosher wife always fulfills her husband's will. But the will of a kosher husband is to allow her to be independent.”
- Rav Aharon Lichtenstein Shlita
Sent by a Maggid Shiur in Yeshivat Har Etzion, HaRav Y.S.F. Shlita. Thanks to him.