What non-soldiers are doing:
Jews: Asking how can we improve ourselves? What can we take upon ourselves to become better people? Chesed of all types. Lots of prayer.
The enemy: Demonstrate to support the murder of innocent Jews. Celebrate when people - even babies - are slaughtered.
Funerals:
Jews: Sadness. Tears. Memories of the good deeds of the victim.
The enemy: Violent calls for the death of Jews. Vengeance. Wrath.
Proud to be on the team of the good guys. Hope to be worthy.