When someone gets angry, screams, gets read in the face, asserts their personality and authority, it seems that they are demonstrating power and strength. The opposite is the truth. It really comes from a place of weakness. The person feels weak and maybe threatened so as a defense they exhibit anger which seems to show power but it is really an indication of weakness.
When someone get angry they are not developing new abilities or strengths but just bring out the worst of themselves and make themselves less lovable not only to others but to themselves.
Do you get angry? When? Why? how do you feel afterward? Does it make things better? Temporarily? Permanently? Is you anger internal or clearly evident?
