A woman goes to see her Rabbi.
"Abe and Sol are both in love with me," she says, "Who will be the lucky one?"
The wise old Rabbi answers:"Abe will marry you. Sol will be the lucky one."
Sweetest friends! Most of dating is a SHOW and the real person only emerges AFTER marriage. So don't date for too long [sometimes 3 weeks is enough as it was for me and sometimes people need more time] and remember that you don't really know what you are getting anyway. The purpose of meeting a person before marriage is just to see if eternal bliss is a possibility, if there are shared interests, goals, aspirations and some level of attraction.
After marriage the real work begins.