Monday, November 21, 2022

Remembering Why We Are Here

לזכות חנה ליבא בת נעכא גיטל לברכה עד בלי די

We live in an incredibly, unprecedentedly comfortable world. The average citizen today is incomparably more comfortable than the richest person 150 years ago. He didn't have running water, cars, airplanes, advanced medicine, Amazon [buy ANYTHING from home and have it at your doorstep in no time😀], the countless machines we benefit from constantly like computers, Waze, washing machines, dryers, air conditioners, heaters etc. etc. etc. There are things that only came on the market in the last few years that many can't survive without for five minutes.... 

I say - BARUCH HASHEM!!!!! We are blessed. We are blessed in Gashmiyus and we are blessed in Ruchniyos. Today - anybody can learn almost anything. Artscroll Gemaros, Mishnayos, millions of translations and elucidations, probably millions of recorded shiurim that one can listen to anywhere. Endless shuls, mikvaos and Jewish schools. Kosher food that is available in mass amounts ready to be eaten [or placed in the micro]. In the old days women were preparing chickens from scratch and brought them to the Rav to ask shylos. When was the last time a woman you know brought a chicken to a Rav 🐔🐔? We are truly blessed.  

Since we were born into it that makes it harder to appreciate. But our deficit in appreciation doesn't make it less of a blessing. 

The world is split up into two categories of people. People who own their own homes or people who dream of owning their own home. That is legitimate. And not just a home with four walls and roof. But a luxurious home filled with creature comforts. No aveirah there, right? So where am I going with this??

Many Orthodox Jews own three homes. One common example - one in NY, one in Florida 😎 and a third of course in Israel [Hatikvah plays in the background🎹🎷🎵 ]. Then of course when they want a vacation they go somewhere where they don't have a home. How can it be a true vacation if they are just going home??? So HEEELLLLLO Spain, France, Arizona, Dubai etc. etc. There are some people who are perpetually either actually on vacation or planning one. Even though things aren't so rough at home.... 

So far it seems that we haven't mentioned one aveirah. But I have one question: A foundational Jewish belief is that we are not in this world merely to "coast" and be comfortable. We are in this world to WORK HARD. היום לעשותם ומחר לקבל שכרם. Shabbos, the true Shabbos, when we can REALLY sit back and "chill" - is in the next world. This world is but a "waiting room" for the next world, as the Mishna in Avos teaches. So are people really living with this awareness? Do they really think that they need THREE [sometimes more...] fancy, luxurious waiting rooms in order to facilitate a life of serving Hashem and spiritually self-actualizing?? Is that really what it is about? This is not a criticism. If I had the money - who knows what I would buy? [I would probably start with the NY Knicks..... Then I would sit court side and make sure they put the TV camera on me when I go crazy over a VERY LARGE man, descended DIRECTLY from Cham ben Noach, a-rags-to-riches-his-great-great-great-granddaddy-was-a-Eved-Kinaani-and-he-throws-a-ball-for-30-million-a-year, convincingly and ferociously, who takes a piece of cowhide and SLAMS it in a net while simultaneously defying laws of gravity🏀🏀 ]. It is just a provocative question that should be asked in order to remind us why we are here. At the end of the day - all of our homes are a form of a rental b/c while the home may last [barring a hurricane in the Florida mansion], we don't...

Something else worth considering is that the Sefer Hachinuch says that running after excessive pleasure is an עבירה דאורייתא 😳😳:

שלא נתור אחר מחשבת הלב וראית העינים, שנאמר (במדבר טו, לט): "וְלֹא תָתוּרוּ אַחֲרֵי לְבַבְכֶם וְאַחֲרֵי עֵינֵיכֶם אֲשֶׁר אַתֶּם זֹנִים אַחֲרֵיהֶם". ענין לאו זה שנמנענו שלא ניחד מחשבותינו לחשוב בדעות שהם היפך הדעת שהתורה בנויה עליו לפי שאפשר לבוא מתוך כך למינות, אלא אם יעלה על לבו רוח לחשוב באותן דעות הרעים יקצר מחשבתו בהם וישנה לחשוב בדרכי התורה האמתיים והטובים. וכמו כן שלא ירדוף האדם אחר מראה עיניו, ובכלל זה שלא לרדוף אחר תאוות העולם הזה כי אחריתם רעה וכדי בזיון וקצף

Note - He offers wise counsel. Pursuing the pleasures of this world is not only forbidden but very, very bad for you. It might give you pleasure in the moment but so do drugs, alcohol, beautiful mistresses and a host of other things that eventually kill a person or destroy his life. 

The Rambam in the seventh perek of hilchos teshuva writes that one has to do teshuva for the sins of excessively pursuing kavod, money and food - and that these sins are WORSE than what we consider sins. 

אל תאמר שאין תשובה אלא מעבירות שיש בהן מעשה כגון זנות וגזל וגניבה אלא כשם שצריך אדם לשוב מאלו כך הוא צריך לחפש בדעות רעות שיש לו ולשוב מן הכעס ומן האיבה ומן הקנאה ומן ההתול ומרדיפת הממון והכבוד ומרדיפת המאכלות וכיוצא בהן מן הכל צריך לחזור בתשובה ואלו העונות קשים מאותן שיש בהן מעשה שבזמן שאדם נשקע באלו קשה הוא לפרוש מהם וכן הוא אומר יעזוב רשע וגו'. 
 
Asking this question for a friend who owned 3 homes and now lives in a small box underground and whose soul is in the world of truth and regrets arriving there with far too few provisions for the long path of eternity.