One organization advertised that people should join over 500,000 people in davening on Tu B'av for singles to find their match. One blogger wasn't happy about this. She writes:
Did anyone ask these singles if they wanted to be prayed for? Is it spiritual abuse if you are prayed for without having given permission?
I am going to go out on a limb over here: No!! It is not spiritual abuse to daven for someone who wants to get married that they should get married.
Wow! I CAN'T BELIEVE I wrote that๐ .
On that note: You don't need my permission but I hereby grant everyone permission to daven for me and my family. Elchonon ben Henna Miriam. I would be happy to do the same for you.