If your problems were "objective", then how come they only bother you when you are conscious of them?
Every problem is in our minds, in the story we are telling ourselves.
Change your story - change your life.
"I am afraid".
A story. Why are you afraid? Do you have to be afraid? Are others in the same situation unafraid? Why?
ישמע חכם ויוסף לקח.
