When you were little, you were told who you are and who you are supposed to become.
It is worth reflecting on that and now that you are an adult and know yourself much better you can modify any aspect of a false identity that was [mistakenly] attached to you. Once you know who you are and what you can become, then you can work in the direction of actualizing yourself.
Hashem gave you unique talents, personality and life circumstances in order to bring out the Kavod Shomayim that only YOU can bring out.
