As part of my Avodah to try to be mischazeik I have to decided to photoshop my wife out of our wedding pictures. It is easier than coming to minyan on time or stopping to speak lashon hara.
When my kids ask where mommy is in the pictures - I will say that our wedding was scheduled for Tuesday night and that was the night she played scrabble with her friends so she couldn't make it in person.
#shlichus
