There is a *guy* I know who I won't identify but I will hint that you have read things he has written.
Anyway, this guy has a REALLY annoying habit/fetish almost obsession: When I do something that matters, he will often tell me that I didn't do it well enough. It doesn't matter how well I actually did or how hard I tried. He seems to always find some fault with what I did. Then he makes me feel guilty about it. Sometimes really guilty and often for years. The worst thing is, I can't just get away from him b/c wherever I go - there HE is!!!
Should I pay him heed???
Do you have such a person in your life, too??
