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A. Okrim Es HaShulchan: Defining the Achilah
The Gemara in Pesachim establishes the din of okrim es hashulchan—removing the table before the meal—specifically kedei sheyishalu hatinokos, to provoke the children to ask. The Magen Avraham (Siman 473) brings down from the Maharil a deeper p’shat in the answer given to the children: "We are not permitted to eat until we recite the Haggadah."
This introduces a fundamental yesod in the avodah of the night. It is not merely a technical delay; rather, it establishes a new gader in the act of eating itself. The Ritva explains that the claim of the Rasha (Wicked Son)—"Mah ha'avodah hazos lachem"—is essentially a complaint about the delay. The Rasha desires to eat immediately to satisfy his physical hunger. By answering "hakei es shinav" (blunt his teeth), we are establishing that on this night, we do not eat like animals or slaves merely for satiation. The achilah of Matzah is contingent upon the Sippur; it is Lechem She'onim Alav—bread over which we answer and relate the story. Until the Sippur transforms the person, one cannot partake in the meal.
B. Mah Nishtana: A Change in Teva
This understanding illuminates the depth of the Mah Nishtana. The child is not merely asking about the technical changes of dipping or reclining. The shoresh of the question is: "Mah nishtana halayla hazeh mikol haleilos?"—Why is the metzius of this night different? On all other nights, we operate under the laws of nature, eating when hungry. On this night, the teva itself changes.
The answer provided—Avadim Hayinu—is that our essential nature has been transformed. We were slaves to Pharaoh, bound by the physical world, but Hashem took us out to be Avdei Hashem. The Geulah was not just a political liberation but a fundamental shift in the teva of Klal Yisrael. We acquired a new nature, one that is not bound by the physical drive to eat immediately, but one that is ruled by Da'as and Ratzon Hashem.
C. Hador Na'eh Ziv
This transformation leads to the praise found in the Piyut of "Adir Hu": Hador Na'eh, Ziv HaOlam. Why do we specifically praise the Ribbono Shel Olam with the attribute of Noy (beauty)?
HaOlam: The Beauty of Connection
The concept of Noy signifies a perfect fit and harmony. As stated in Shir HaShirim: "Shechora ani v'nava"—"I am black but comely." Even when Klal Yisrael appears "black" due to Galus or avonos, there is an intrinsic Noy—a deep, beautiful connection between the Borei and His chosen people. The chiddush of Yetzias Mitzrayim is that the Creator of the World "came down," so to speak, to redeem a nation from the midst of another nation, forging a specialized shaychus that defies logic.
The Goyim ask: "Mah dodech midod?"—What makes your Beloved different? They do not understand this Noy. They see only the external "blackness" (Shechora). But on Seder night, we reveal the Nava—the inner beauty of our unique connection to Hashem. This is why we say "Hador Na'eh"—He is the Beauty of the World, for the entire purpose of creation was for this ziv (radiance) of connection between Hashem and Yisrael.
D. The Avodah of the Night
Thus, the structure of the Seder creates a complete mahalach. We start by recognizing we are different (Mah Nishtana). We demonstrate this difference by holding back from eating until we have internalized the Geulah through the Sippur (Okrim es Hashulchan). By doing so, we reject the approach of the Rasha and demonstrate that our physical actions are elevated by Da'as.
Ultimately, this leads us to recognize the Noy—the beautiful, exclusive bond with Hashem that makes us "Na'eh U'meshubach." Through this, we elevate the Lechem Oni (bread of poverty) into Lechem She'onim (bread of answers and connection), fulfilling the ultimate purpose of the Exodus: to become a "Mamleches Kohanim V'Goy Kadosh." [הגרחי"ק שליט"א]